now he has texted me 2 say hi more then once and he has called me numerous times to say Merry Christmas and e-mailed me to say something 2 him,because I don't answer him back,I finally said "what about"?,he said just 2 see how I am,I told him "I was fine" and it was no concern of his" he said "why?" and I told him "because we r nothing...."there was no response after that.What r his real intentions.I gave him what he wanted for the second time & I'm trying to move past the pain(of the break-up) What does he want?
2006-12-25 22:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he gave you no response? giving no answer at all is still giving an answer
you should just call ME instead!
2006-12-25 22:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you to are having some mixed communications. Did he break up with you or did he just ask for some time apart? It sounds like he just wants to step back and take a breather to make sure that this relationship is what he wants. Besides, just because he doesn't want to be with you, doesn't mean that he doesn't still love you. That is most likely why he is still calling you and texting you. I used to date this girl for along time. I loved her, and still do. Although I had to step back from the relationship and make sure that it is what I wanted. The problem was, she wanted children and I did not. This was the breaking point for me and even though I loved her, I had to leave. No matter what anyone tells you, love isn't always enough. Have you been putting any pressure on him lately like children, engagement, marriage or moving in together? If so this could be the problem and he needs a breather. You to need to communicate. Ask him why he is feeling this way. Take him at his word. If he decides that you are what he wants and you get back together, make it clear to him that this is it. Tell him to make sure that this is what he wants because the next time he pulls this, you are gone, no matter what he thinks or wants, because it is to painful for you.
2006-12-25 22:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy, I can officially say that most of us are relationally challenged. You have this great girl but you wonder is she the 1? Plus we have morons for friends that are too stupid to have girlfriends constantly telling us to dump you and party with them. So in a weak moment, we ask for our freedom and regret getting it from the moment you give it to us. So if he has done this to you more than once, He is an emotional retard, probably beyond help. If this is the first time, you 2 need to talk it out.
Sorry for your pain.
2006-12-25 22:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That what we Men call: Mind Games. He's playing with your head. Don't give yourself to the game. It takes two to play. You will see, that he's going to show up where you live, soon enough. And be calling you like crazy, just to see if you have someone else. Don't tell him I told you okay. Lol. Is this your first brake up? Because if it is, then the first brake up never takes. Good Luck. P.S. Move on, there are many fishes in the sea (Me). =:o)
2006-12-25 22:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to play with your head. It looks to me like he has a problem with himself and doesn't know what he wants. It's a good idea to leave him a lone. Don't even talk to him. He sounds like drama to me and he wants to control you and the relationship. A lot of insecure guys play mind games as a means for control of their woman. That's a form of abuse. You'll find a real man eventually...
2006-12-25 22:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by syphsss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he just realized that something is bad on what he has done. and i don't know but it seems he is up to something nice which i cant judge because i don't know more about your bf. but as for me, its nice to let someone proved his worth. but stay safe darling. always remember that in love you need to take the risk of hurting your self. so take caution before anything goes wrong.
2006-12-25 22:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by richardmike20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty of Fish in the sea. LOL go fishing
2006-12-25 22:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you. Some guys like to hurt girls and they do these things just to see what you will do. They want you to think about them . Don't answer his calls let him squirm
2006-12-25 22:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he thought in his world things were going fast and wanted to start over again, as friends and take it from there and maybe thought you could handle that?
2006-12-25 22:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by chica 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋