my boyfriend's dad had a xmas party n he's family members invited me but he didn't he says dat it wont be fun dat i shouldnt come but he invited hes friends.y didnt he want me 2 come did he really think dat i wudnt enjoy it.
2006-12-25 21:53:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he thinks his family will think he wants to marry you or something and he doesn;t want to send that message to them. Or maybe he just wants to party up wtih his friends that have been at the party before.
2006-12-25 22:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be a mind reader. Maybe he has a boys night out afterwards and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. There could be a million reasons. Either ask him or just make up so many what if's in your mind until you just go crazy.
2006-12-25 22:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are younger than the rest of them ie, they're 18 and your 15, then maybe he just was thinking you'd be bored, if your the same age, it seems as though he doesnt want you there.
Make sure you don't jump to conclusions, though.
2006-12-25 21:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 09:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he thinks you won't be comfortable around his family or it could be that he is embarrassed with his family.
I honestly don't see the point in not asking you to go along - you can make your own conclusions then.
2006-12-25 22:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does not want you to be there. Or he thought that something might get revealed while talks or he really meant what he said (although doubtful) or despite his age he might be feeling little strange and alienated ??
2006-12-25 21:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but it sounds like your just a booty call. even if your not sexually active it would seem that he feels you would be a ball and chain to his fun. time to dump him. it is always a good thing to have boys as friends but it sounds like your 2 young to worry about a boyfriend. just expand your circle of friends and have fun. just be careful and if your sexually active always use protection and beware of becoming known as the easy one. sry if i sound like i am preaching honesty is hard to hear hope it helps
2006-12-25 22:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by johndoe915 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a selfish prick and would much rather hang out with his friend's than you. he doesn't care about you, kick him 2 the curb asap! if he did care about you, he would not want this or want to even be separate from you.
2006-12-25 22:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he really thought u wudn't enjoy n for u only he said that but there r chances that he has another gf n he does not wont u to meet her or maybe just wants to be wid his friends,
it can b anything.U SHOULD TALK TO HIM CLEARLY ABOUT THIS.I HOPE IT WORKS
- VASAVI (PRONOUNCED AS VASVI !!!)
2006-12-25 21:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he didn't want to be with ya or see how he truley acts!! Whatever the reason being i think he is hiding something
2006-12-25 21:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by VeganChickk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋