I dont know what it is about him after we broke up from just 3 weeks of dating i was ready to call it quits, because he didnt seem interested in me and i heard he was cheatin on me. After we broke up i started to develop a passion for him, i would think bout him, hopin there was a miracle for us to get back together..i spent my days listenin to sad love songs walkin around so depressed thinkin it was a phase and i'll get over it. MAN, I thought wrong! Sometimes we talk but its only bout me coming to his house for sex, then i thought about it he just using me, i was so excited thinkin he may wanna give us another try yet i thought wrong, AGAIN! I really messed up last week i found out he had a g/f and the same day i found out was the same day i kissed him, but ever since the day i kissed him he acts as if i don't exist. He passes me up without saying anything and don't like anyone witnessing that we talk. im just confused and dont know i think he using me yet its love, what should i do?
2006-12-25 21:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by VeganChickk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in a situation where its hard for you just to stop loving the person. You and your ex-boyfriend had an intimate relationship so once you find out that hes been cheating or whatever, you become devastated and crushed. But if you found out that he has a girlfriend I think its time for you to call it quits, you guys can still be friends but nothing more than that. And you should have respect for yourself in controlling yourself when he feels like he can just have you over just for sex. If he has a girlfriend then she should be handling all of that, not you. He had you and now he has someone else, so I think you should move on. Trust me, there are plenty other men out there - he's not the only one for you!
2006-12-25 23:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chrisssy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Laverne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on to another one. No offence, but you are deaperate and you feel that he is the center of your life and without him you don't know what to do. Simply you have to go back to your normal life and find another boyfriend. If you seriously can't stop thinking about him, you can try finding new hobbies, doing something you like or hanging out with friends.
2006-12-25 21:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Denise T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using u.I think your feelings 4 him came about after u broke up coz u missed bein with someone and everybody needs the feeling of bein loved.The fact that he has found someone else is saying he has moved on and he is just using u for sex when he cant get it with his new gf.listening to sad songs is not a good idea coz it just makes u more depressed.i did that once after a breakup and i ended up having to see a physc for depression.I found it better to listen to some loud angry tracks to my anger surfacing.dont know yet if it is helping me but i prefer to angry than depressed.hope this helps.
2006-12-25 21:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey cut the crap & cut the story short, he was just playing around only, ignore him & FIND OTHER THINGS 2 DO, Everything passes u r just concentrating on him, DROP the issue totallly.
2006-12-25 21:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by loza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the drama, stop fixating, get a hobby and don't let yourself be so vulnerable.
2006-12-25 21:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by j240na9u0jg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy for you but you must move on. There are plenty of men who are better than him for sure.
2006-12-25 21:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Suparto Jaya kusuma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love i think is a great thing so if u think u still love him then go for him, who knows he may be your future husband that GOD has given u.
2006-12-25 22:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by boateng k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you are in school. This is definitely kid stuff. Stop talking to him and respect yourself.
2006-12-25 21:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get thee to a nunnery.
2006-12-25 21:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋