i would love him to be on top too but i don want to be flatten by him. how?
2006-12-25 20:54:47 · 13 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like him to be on top on my and take control.
2006-12-25 21:00:34 · update #1
First do you mean "cuddle" or do you mean "sex"?
We aren't in grade school right? okay as far as cuddling you can be at each other's side or even use a water bed. if snuggling is the main idea why does anyone need to be 'on top'.
now for sex........ try the Karma Sutra books and also advise from a clinic. The wrong postiton for too long time can mess up you body in the long run and get you sore......... examples--> yeast-urinary tract infections, blisters just to name a few.
Love him for him and ask him to work with you on this, maybe he can work out. If his upper body is stroung he wont 'crush you' push ups are elementary for some people regardless of their weight class. good luck
2006-12-25 21:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dy$e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, when the relationship is new the sex is the shortest. Especially if it's been a while since he was last sexually active. He has to build his tolerance back up. So stiff upper lip, champ. Some day soon this'll be a long ago memory!
2016-05-23 07:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..Its ok to love someone the way they are but let him cut down on fats and do simple exercises,cuz obeisity can cause serious diseases on the long run ..so if u love him try to help him..
and my advice :when u exercise..the sex is much better ..
anyway,u can do it spoony ,doggy style ,sitting etc. u can also check the kama sutra and choose positions when he's not on top..
2006-12-25 22:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lucifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's over 250, try a different position. Missionary won't get it for someone his size. You'll both be frustrated. Get the K.S. book.
2006-12-25 21:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to inhale some helium...that'll bring your sex to a whole new level literally. But don't giggle when he moans like a chipmunk, that'll deflate his ego even if he's inflated with helium.
2006-12-26 01:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How? Very carefully.
Seriously, try it once and if you can't find a safe way then just know it's something you can't do with him.
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2006-12-25 20:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very little & my man is very large but we seem to work it fine. He just has to hold his weight so as not to squish you. Lol.. what is he just flopping all of his weight down onto you?
2006-12-25 21:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not going to flatten u hun. not unless if he's way bigger than i am but i haven't had any probs in that dept.
2006-12-25 21:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to talk to him, he must lose some weight tell him you aint enjoying it anymore...if he cares he'll do it
2006-12-25 21:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doggie style.
2006-12-25 21:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋