Only been casually seeing each other for 2 months. He started out really keen, and he always made me aware that he liked me, and I wanted to take it slow (I just moved to town about 6 months ago). So we spent time getting to know each other for a month, then I went on holidays for 3 weeks in which time he rarely contacted me. I thought he was just giving me space so I could enjoy my holiday. Since being back (only a week) he has continued to rarely contact me and we have only seen each other once, though we are both busy and it is Christmas time. Am I just making excuses for him and he has lost interest? Or am I over-reacting and need to give him time?
2006-12-25 20:32:50 · 8 answers · asked by mel_johns 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about you try contacting him for once?
Why does he have to do everything?
From what I'm hearing, he's the one that's been following you around and waiting for you since you decided to "take it slow".
Maybe he runs on a different pace.
Or, maybe he's simply just busy. It is the holidays you know. The world doesn't revolve around you.
2006-12-25 20:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, you both in college? Alot of my friends dissappeard for awhile due to finals. If not then he could definantly be busy with family. Just continue to message him till the middle of next month giving him nice little updates on how you have been or whatever. If he doesnt answer you by the end of January then sorry but move on.
2006-12-26 04:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he started keen, he should be keen now also.I think he is avoiding you. take the clue or if you want to wait,give him some time.
2006-12-26 04:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah. Just start over. Or start over from where you 'left off'
2006-12-26 04:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by The Platinum Mage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for give him a call....before he finds someone else
2006-12-26 04:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ratt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flick him
2006-12-26 04:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by sam2ching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call now!
2006-12-26 04:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by knowlegeSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should u ask us ...ask him directly
2006-12-26 04:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋