The reason is this guy's oral ablities. I've never had it like this. Now, I'm learning him more and everything, but I have to keep myself from thinkin about the head. He tells me, "I'm probally the greatest guy you will ever meet!!" and "If we ever break up, it will be b/c of something you did because I won't change!!" I've only known him for a week, and we have only been intimate once. I'm really a good person and I do deserve good sex, which is what he offers, but I know he has so much more to offer behind the tounge. On the downside, he has been married before and he is only 20. I'm stuck in gum and can't run away from this!! Help ya gurl out please!!!!
2006-12-25 19:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by CoCo Queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
long relationships are based on conversation with the touge, not its wonderful abilities. i am sure there are other guys with amazing oral abilities. are you goin to be able to find a guy with that and the personality you are looking for? thats what you need to consider if you want a long loving relationship. or what do u want more in life, a companion or great oral- and if the guy has both GREAT
2006-12-25 20:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this right...
You are a good person...
Yet you've known this guy a week, a whole 7 days, and you've already had sex with the guy?
And somehow you have figured out that a good person who jumps in the sack after a whole 7 days does in fact deserve good sex?
And Mr. Wonderful has been married before and is only 20?
And in a week you are falling in love with him...
Are you making this up, or did you get this from Days of our Lives?
No, wait, you got it from Gerry Springer, didn't you...
Let's start from the beginning. No one "deserves" good sex. That's a rationalization for a complete lack of disciplne.
Second, you do not jump in the sack within the first seven days of a relationship.
Third, You don't fall in love in a week.
Fourth, a 20 year old with a divorce is a red flag, not a love object.
2006-12-28 12:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by LongSnapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who says "I'm probably the greatest guy you will ever meet" and "If we ever break up, it will be b/c of something you did because I won't change!!" has more to offer? Like what? More of his ego? Is that someone you really want to be spending your time on? What you're falling in is not love - it's lust. Is sex really more important to you than a lasting relationship? I feel sorry for you if it is, because let me tell you - if it's as good as you say it is, honey, IT'S ALL DOWNHILL FROM THERE.
2006-12-25 20:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by supensa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be with him...go for it! lol I wouldnt suggest marring him or anything though.If its love....it will last.If it isnt love......the relationship will dwindle with his eagerness to please...which he will get lazy on you after awhile..trust me.lol
So, well, i say enjoy the "fun" while it lasts.Go with the flow and say your goodbyes when time comes.I mean c'mon that's a once in a lifetime kinda guy there.hehe
Buuutt...ugh, as hard as it may be, you might want to tell him that your not sure that you love him or not or that your afraid you may be falling for the wrong reasons.
It shouldnt hurt him too much to hear it,lol it may be a big boost to his ego.But, you never know, he may surprise you with a reply to that with a spectacular answer that may be even more winning than his.......amazing abilities. hehe
just give it time...its only been a week lol.So far all you know...is he is..uh heem...talented.....in time you may discover more things to love him.....lol..that are not sexually related.
2006-12-25 20:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each from time to time. I save in options when I married my first husband. at the same time as he proposed I knew i did not favor to marry him yet I knew I wasn't waiting to split. and that is the position we were in our courting - get married or split. I knew it does not very last as I walked down the aisle.... when I customary my 2d husband's suggestion I had so such doubts. when I walked down the aisle (nicely, old staircase to be precise) i seen not some thing yet how large he appeared in a tournament. I fell in love with him because he's a superb man or woman who suits me extremely nicely. So extremely. human beings fall in love for the incorrect causes perpetually. I have a chum who reported she fell in love at the same time with her ex because her self-worth replaced into so low she couldn't trust all of us replaced into drawn to her.
2016-12-01 04:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's pathetic. Get a vibrator and cut this guy loose. Do you think a guy who only has this going for him is going to cut it for you for the rest of your little life, miss 20 year old?? With his BS "If we ever break up it's going to be your fault?" That sounds like a threat against you.
Better give it up.
2006-12-25 20:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by bluasakura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just doesnt seem like you're falling in love it just seems like you're falling in lust, so there's no goin back on this 1! Make the best of it sister! You'll figure the rest out later. Im sure he's enjoying it as much as u are so no1 loses :)
2006-12-25 20:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys change after the first time don't get caught up in the moment,Just cause it was good the first time doesn't mean it will be good the next don't base your relationship on i night of good sucki sucki lol
2006-12-25 20:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love, just lust. Have fun, but don't let him take advantage of you. Get to know him better before you make a serious commitment.
2006-12-25 20:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but make sure your heart is in the right place
2006-12-25 20:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋