I've been going out with this guy for more than two years, but just recently, he's not been talking to me. When I get him to talk, he still insists he loves me, but I'm really confused. I am getting mixed signals here and would like some input on what to do. Help me out please?
2006-12-25 19:56:08 · 11 answers · asked by Simmons&Church:-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been married for a very long time and I know more than anyone, that when men have a certain problem, they retreat and simply don't share. Give him time, be supportive, and most important don't nag him as this NEVER helps. If he has stopped showing you affection however and you are feeling neglected, you must sit him down and talk to him gently and out of love for the relationship. If he loves you, he will realise you are hurting and maybe open up.. Hope this helps.
2006-12-25 20:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Chirine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well i don't know the total history of your relationship with this guy, but I'll try to give the best advice I can. He might not be talking for several reasons: he's tired of arguing, so he avoids talking at all costs:), he's bored with the relationship:(, or he might be having a hard time right now with work/school/family :/. You should ask him, that's what your there for right? you've been in this relationship for two years, you both should be able to do that (Even though at times its really hard). Be supportive and don't worry, if he said he loves you, I'm sure he means it, its something most guys have a hard time saying. Well thats my XMAS gift to you, hope everything works out well
2006-12-26 04:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, not exactly sure how to look at this, but I kinda think he's feeling guilty about something.... Usually means he's cheating, sorry if that's the case. Or maybe he's just confused as to where your relationship is headed. Good luck.
2006-12-26 04:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by FearDragons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine has gone through the same situation...
his boyfriend had issues he doesn't want to share...they were not talking like they used to... "HE ALSO INSISTS THAT HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HER"
only after a few months did she find out that his guy had been seeing another girl... they broke up after...
well, i just wanted to share...
you should talk to him and ask if there's anything wrong and him acting strange is worrying you...
2006-12-26 04:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is talk to him. maybe he is just going through a rough time and is afraid to tell you. or maybe in his opinion things are dieing out and he does not want to hurt you. you can find the most out from him
2006-12-26 04:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just going through a rough spot, i wouldnt jump to conclusions, maybe you should give him a little space for like a week see if you can get him really interested in you again
2006-12-26 04:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him again,
get things straight
2006-12-26 03:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by DB9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just pissed and dont know what u thinkin. he think mabye u mad
2006-12-26 04:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dane W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definatly cheating on u
2006-12-26 03:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Holadios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you in doubt,walk away.
2006-12-26 04:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋