ok...i like a gal. But she already likes another guy.(they have not got into any relationships yet...she just like him n he like her) so wat shd i do? continue n hope 4 the best or just leave her alone n look 4 some other gal?
2006-12-25 19:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by ReFlEcTi0Ns 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are actually assuming that she likes the other guy. Never guess in such situations. Sometime people pretend that they like someone to get attention from specific person(s). And, how you are sure that this relationship will last forever, even if they are in it. What if she needs you tomorrow. You must give her a window.
So, dear friend, EXPRESS your feelings in the most decent ways to her and do it as soon as possible, who knows, she may like you and give you a chance. But be prepared for a No and if explained properly, take the no gracefully.
But go and tell her how you feel like. Even if she does not like you, YOU like her. Don't keep it inside, have a heart and go now. All the best!
2006-12-25 19:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one but u sound like a realistic person. if it seems to u like this other might want it to become a real thing then i wouldn't get in his way. on the other hand if they r just friends and nothing more than u can try by going bowling with her or even both of them... let her see your fun side. your 'he's a dream guy, maybe i want him' kind of guy. and if you hang out with her enough it might just happen, but you'll have to pick up on signals from the other guy. if he seems angry or jokes to her about you than you might never have a chance with.
try it out but be open for disappointment. and i'm sure there is a girl out there that would b lucky to have u as her boy friend.
good luck!
2006-12-26 03:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, you still got a chance, don give up! That what my dear did before we are together. In the end I choose him cos he touch my heart. But if they decide to be in a relationship then you just stand out. Take Care & wish you all the best! =)
2006-12-26 04:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if you truly like her then..continue and hope for the best, but don't expect something that you would really get hurt in the end. If you feel hopeless about it..then maybe it's time for you to look for another one..and move on.
2006-12-26 03:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try and if she reject you, then you can start looking 4 other gals. Don't live in regret
2006-12-26 05:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is comong from a guy,
Technically, you could do either one,
However if i were you since she's already into another dude, I'd let her go, It's alright to let her know that you like her, but love is something that cannot be forced upon someone,
2006-12-26 03:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say ask the girl out be a GENTLEMEN! U have 2 tell her how u feel! and if she doesn't have those feelings 4 u well then hey AT LEAST U TRIED! GOOD LUCK!
HOPE I'VE BEEN A GREAT HELP!!!!!
2006-12-26 03:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by LiL Ms Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is she taken no then y u plannin to give up nooo
wht u need is a plan
some impressive moves
wht u need to do is attract her towards u and make her like u
ok
serch on google for "double your dating" ok
can find some usefull tips on wht attract's women
cheers and best of luck bro
2006-12-26 04:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well persue her till she is in a relationship or states she no longer wants to be considered as a girlfriend. but do not set all hopes and desires on her, u may just be asking to get your heart broken.
2006-12-26 03:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try, the most you take 5 minutes to know whether you she like you too. If you don't try, for your entire life, you will never know the answer. If I was you, I will go for it.
2006-12-26 03:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋