ok so there is this girl i like that used to go to my school and i would talk to her almost everyday, and i decided to ask her out one day and she said no because she had a boyfriend and she said she wasnt trying to be mean to me and if she didnt have a BF her answer might be different, so we still talked like always like if i never asked her out, but now she doesnt go to my school, but she does still live close to my house....... so any advice from any girls?? and i cant get her out of my mind because she is so perfect. she is everything a guy could want. and i just want to tell her that she is the perfect girl, because she is everything i want in a girl. it feels like God made her just for me. Should i ask her out after she breaks up with her boyfriend
2006-12-25 19:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2006-12-25 19:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brett S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for just girls to answer this but trust me man, I am in the same boat. There is a saying that I heard in a Paul Simon song it goes, "Who am I, to blow against the wind" That means if she as a boyfriend, even a bad one then don't try to go against it. But the fact that she said she would of maybe had a different answer if she was single means a lot a lot! The best thing to do is be her friend, ask her if she wants to hang out with you and your friends, invite her to stuff that is fun, and never once mention your feeling, flirt lightly but nothing too much. If she accepts your invitations then your in, because before long she is going to realize how much fun she is missing out with you. Hang in there, don't give up untill she tells you to. The only way you can fail in this situation is by not even trying to win her over, just never make it serious or else she will be gone faster than Maurice Jones-Drew in the open field, (jacksonville jaguars) good luck bro!
2006-12-25 19:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by nottoobad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her on a lunch date and talk about the things on your mind with her. Why do you need advice on this? And another thing, don't waste your life over her, what if she doesn't break up with her boyfriend for a really long time? Hey it happened to me, i still love the girl but only as a friend now, some day when you're older you may understand.
2006-12-25 19:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Roy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to give her some time to show that you are considerate of her feelings but also be there for her so she has a shoulder to cry on and when she gets to the point when she is ready to move on then make your move..
2006-12-25 19:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must not be getting the answer you are looking for... This is like the 5th time i have seen you ask this tonight... if you do not like the answers you are getting stop asking the question!!!
2006-12-25 19:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋