turns out things didnt work out between him and his wife of 13 years. one month ago i found out she was still living in his apt. and he was hidding it from me. he kicked her out and i go through his phone listen to his voicemails and i just cant trust him. he tells me he doesnt love her anymore. she left a voicmail the other day and she said why arent you answering your phone who are you with what are you doing but she asked like if he asks her the same thing. why would he care if he says he doesnt love her anymore. i love him so much i just dont know what to do or believe anymore. how do i get through this?
2006-12-25 19:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing you both for sex!
2006-12-25 19:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distrust = poison in a relationship. So even if you were to kiss and makeup, you will have that gnawing insect in your brain called distrust killing your relationship. Everything he does is suspect. Can you continue like that in ANY relationship? He still has feelings for her. You know that. That is why you are writing here. You have been used by him because you have provided him an emotional shelter. You can't save this relationship. It is over. I am sorry about that, but the only thing you can do is save yourself. It will be painful, but you can bear the pain now or more later on. Imagine if you were pregnant and your relationship fell apart? Please do the smart thing. You already know what you have to do. Do not let your love blind you.
2006-12-25 19:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your questions is "How do you get through this?"? I say be thankful you only wasted one year. Women hold all the power, but for some reason, skanky double-crossing guys like this never have any problems getting a woman to put up with their nonsense. If every woman just kicked every jerk to the curb, and there wasn't some other woman there to pick him up, maybe there would be fewer jerks.
So let the ex have him. Gather up your dignity and get on with your life.
2006-12-25 19:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by oolishfay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him because you just said that you have been together for a year and he just recently kicked her out!! no you need to leave him because if you stay that will give him the impression that even though he does cheat on you you will forgive him so he'll just keep doing it!!
2006-12-25 19:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do.
Even guys are telling you the fact.
Its just up to you to go by 'feeling' or fact.
2006-12-25 19:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding!!!
You should find another bf.
No, it won't be easy, but it's right thing to do and you know it.
2006-12-25 19:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run fast, run far.
2006-12-25 19:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by educ8rkids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds pretty shaky
2006-12-25 19:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brett S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋