My first love was when i was 17 and he was 15, I ran away from home to be with him we lived with his mom, we had some issues and we went our seperate ways without really discussing it I mean we were young. Throughout the years I always thought about him and wondered how we went wrong, for the next 4 years I dated but if he called me I ran to him. I then got married and was for 7 years, I saw him around and I always felt the same I did when I was 17. My marriage ended and about 1 year later he contacted me, I was dating a great guy so I kept it cordial, it didn't last long we lost contact again. A year into my relationship I contacted him, I wanted to have a long talk about what happened when we were younger. I knew i loved him but he was in no way avail to give me the life I wanted. I kept on with my relationshipfor 3more yrs and now I still feel the same about him and he about me and am evaluating my current realationship. Can love really be this strong. Will it work?
2006-12-25 18:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by Hopless romantic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was dating two guys when I was 16. I loved them both, but they were complete opposites. I married one of them when I was 16 and was physically and mentally abused for many of those years. I finally had the courage to get a divorce and who do you think I met again within 2 months. The other guy that I had dated and he was divorced also. We started dating and dated for only three month, but we knew it was right for us. We did marry and are still married. Our 30th wedding anniversary is coming up soon, so I say Love can definitely be that strong. I say get back with him and see where things can go. You will always wonder if you don't. Good luck and I hope you find the happiness I have.
2006-12-25 18:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had love at first sight when I was 22 and she was 15. We had a silent love only with eternal feelings. She came to our house as a guest with my other relatives and was there for only three days. She then returned and I went to my Engineering college hostel. After 5 years we met again in my cousin's wedding, we had the same feeling. Our elders then contacted and finalized our marriage as an arranged marriage. We believe our strong bonding of LOVE worked and we are still very very happy with two children.
2006-12-25 21:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question is, why are you leading on another guy if you are so clearly in love with this other guy? Thats rough, you will probably always feel the same way about him for the rest of your life. But its your choice to either move on or not.
2006-12-25 18:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~†~§amueL~†~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this is not workable, as time goes by we start to change in our thinking and what we feel for each other 15 years ago is totally different from how we feel for each other today. I don't believe the relation will work out well
2006-12-25 21:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you have history.
and if you care about him enough to write this then I believe it is worth a try.
if you don't try [or come to peace with the current situation]
you will think about it every day of your life.
and if you love him you have to ask yourself if the life you wanted really matters more than being with him.
i hope things get better for you.
2006-12-25 18:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....your love story is soooo amazing!!!! It can be made as a movie!
Yes of course you can make it work! Love conquers everything and destiny will always have its way. Follow your heart and everything will be alright. and then.....you two....are gonna live happily ever after!!!! ; )
2006-12-25 18:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living in the past because while your busy doing that your missing out on the present and what the future may hold in store for you... let it go and move on with your life....
2016-05-23 07:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk it out and have reasonable expectations.
communication is the key, and yes it can work
it has to be a two way street is all for anything to work.
2006-12-25 18:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write a book and sell your story...
it makes it even better that it's all true..
Hopefully it does work out.
Good luck!
2006-12-25 18:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋