my conversion to Buddhism? She wasn't really raised religious, but in her adult life she's a Christian. One of my best friend's is also Christian and it seems she doesn't accept me either, like making little side jokes about it. I don't want to stereotype, but it seems they're trying to make it true. I try to have conversations with my mother, like a few days ago, but she'll just ignore me. I converted this summer and I'm 16 years old. I think I'm old enough to make personal decisions like that for myself.
2006-12-25 16:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by baby BELLA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
OMG, this is a tough one.
I don't think your mother will be very happy with this, Ana.
I don't really know Buddhism too well, just the usual academic stuff; but it does seem to be quite a Peaceful and Serene thing.
Well, to each their own; but do you really think you should go around advertizing your Conversion?
Especially since you are obviously in a Christian dominated place and they will not take too kindly to this.
I think you need to meditate on that.
Here's wishing you a very Happy New Year!!!!!
2006-12-25 17:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club! I'm a Tibetan Buddhist myself, and what I have learn from my Association is before we try to convert people is to firstly change ourself.
In Might take a couple of years to change yourself, In terms of Attitude and Behaviour and even how you act back towards a certain things people tell you.
You can log into my Guru's webpage http://www.tsemtulku.com for some Dharma Talks. And my guru is really Funny!
or you can also log into my blog.
http://www.tsondruegyatso.blogspot.com
http://www.yellow-dzambala.blogspot.com
http://www.tibetan-rituals.blogspot.com
http://www.buddha-stories.blogspot.com
Understand what is Buddhism throughly, and you will change a bit by a bit. People dont listen to you cause their kharma has not ripen to practice Dharma. Give them time and dont force them
2006-12-28 01:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by gerald j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and help her understand it better. If she knows more about it, perhaps she'll be more open to accepting your choice. And you are right; you are well old enough to make choices like this for yourself.
Perhaps you could benefit from religioustolerance.com. It is my favorite source for non-biased information about all kinds of religions and religious topics. Here is their menu on Buddhism:
http://www.religioustolerance.org/buddhism.htm
2006-12-25 17:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady of the Pink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to discuss it? Live it and let her ask you. Your religious beliefs are personal--only to you.
You are certainly old enough to take charge of what you want your spiritual existance to be.
Let people make jokes. Other religions are equally mocked and criticized. If your spirit is firm and sound, you will not let anyone change it.
2006-12-25 17:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! I am a Buddhist myself. First, if you know it's hard for her to accept the religion, know that action speaks louder. Behave well and mention left and right about BuddiDharma and bring some good friends who are Buddhists too. take your time to let her learn more about the religion and get to know the people you mingle with who are Buddhists. slowly, she will learn what the believes are and what the religion is about before you tell her that you have converted. good luck!
2006-12-25 16:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buddhism is a very peaceful religion, and if you can get that into her head, and let her see it through your eyes, all will be well,
If she keeps nagging about "saveing your soul" be prepared ofr a long road of intolerance, but eventually...it will end and you will be accepted,
Im hopeing for peace in your situation
2006-12-25 17:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by DrewM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your mother is a true Christian, and honestly believes in what she preaches, she will respect who you are. Even though she wont agree with it, she will accept you and love you. Just talk to her, say it is a choice you made, that you respect her for who she is and expect the same from her.
2006-12-25 16:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her this is how I feel and this is my choice. You might also want to tell her that you have not changed as a person. Explain to her how your conversion has affected you for the better. I am sure she will get over it eventually.
2006-12-25 16:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by suz' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to think for yourself. You have absolutely made the right choice in Buddhism.
Any religion that claims to be the only way to God is a lie. You are right and they are wrong.
Good for you sweetie. I applaud you.
2006-12-25 16:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, by all means! If you cannot talk to her directly, write her a letter expressing all your feelings and concerns. Explain her your point of view and your reasons. She WILL read it, I can assure you that!
2006-12-25 16:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky71 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋