Okay so i'm totally into this guy.. hes my bestfriend.. and i've had the biggest crush on him for about 2 mouths now.. okay ahah i no that sounds fine but the thing is.. i dont no if he likes me back.. and i cant get the nerve to just ask him.. he's a flirt.. he doesnt do what he does to me to other girls.. but it does flirt.. abit so i dont no if he likes me or its just his perosnalty.. but if were hanging out, like once we were watching a movie.. he'll put his legs over mine.. and "accentdently" touch my hand with his.. he didnt tell me that.. i just think he tryed it to see what i'd do.. i was @ his house the other night and we layed down together and watched a movie.. he played with my hair, nickleace, and touch my hand again.. and we just practially cuddled.. lol i pratically through myself @ him.. and he doesnt seem to make the first move and i cant tell if hes a if he likes me? (do any of u guys do this) ugh aha please help :) any advice would b GREAT
2006-12-25 16:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by lauren * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-25 16:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by eee_aww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't ever feel like you have to throw yourself at a guy. Although they may not catch on right away, chances are this guy knows that you like him and is taking his time deciding what to do about it. This could be due to age and inexperience. Often high school (and younger) guys have no idea how to begin a relationship, how to ask a girl out, or how to treat a girl that they have asked out. Talk to him. Ask him about your relationship -- what it is, and where it's going. If you're not comfortable talking to him, then there's no way you should be throwing yourself at him or cuddling with him.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 00:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you
Maybe he has the same fears as you do =)
A normal best friend wouldnt play with your hair, necklace and touch your hand or cuddle
You should really tell him that you like him
Maybe you can send him a text message if its difficult to tell him like that
Good Luck =)
2006-12-26 00:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by JeZzZ J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he probably likes you.
But he might need help making a move.
Set yourself up to be kissed or something. Other than that just smile at him nice a lot and I'm sure you'll do ok.
2006-12-26 00:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definitely wants to be with you or he's one of those guys who want to get in your pants.
man, if i only had that chance, that sounds so romantic.. for the youth of course.
from what you're telling me, i think he does.
it's a shame that i'm 16 and none of these have ever happened to me. i'm too prude... many girls find me attractive but i avoid them; i'm an awkward guy.
to come think of it, i should really give them a shot
2006-12-26 00:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what you are saying! seriously how many more signs do you need? damn it go for it!
2006-12-26 00:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋