who should carry the responsibility of taking care of a relationship??
is it the girl or the boy???
2006-12-25 16:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by BuRn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BOTH!!!!! Don't be selfish!!!!!
2006-12-25 16:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BOTH
This is exactly why so many relationships end in breakups and divorce. Both partners need to be giving 100% or it WILL NOT work. One person trying to carry the whole responsibility will become worn out, frustrated, and will feel underappreciated, taken for granted, and walked all over.
2006-12-26 00:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where do you live??! It's both the girl and the boy's responsibility. It's his job to make sure she's happy and her job to make sure she is. If that's not what your willing to do or work for the maybe you should get a kept woman who gets paid to take care of you. (Not being snooty just realistic). A relationship takes two people to want it to happen.
2006-12-26 00:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a 2 way street. Each should give 110% to the relationship. You are partners right? Give and take equaly. It is not just for one to be responsible for.
2006-12-26 00:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
both should work at it 100%. if it isn't fun, then you are with the wrong person. i am currently in the best relationship of my life. every day is FUN!! and it has been 7 months!!
2006-12-26 00:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
both. if both are not taking their end of the stick things could get messed up!
2006-12-26 00:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither if this question needs to be asked. I'd wait a while longer if I were you.
2006-12-26 00:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BOTH! it takes two to tango
2006-12-26 00:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It should be mutual, both of you should.
2006-12-26 00:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Just Some Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
both
2006-12-26 00:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by Blessed Person :-) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋