it seems like every guy i met is a total jerk, even if they are nice at first they usually turn into a total ***. then there are ones who are pretty nice but im not attracted to them. help!
2006-12-25 16:44:09 · 32 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep your a dreamer
2006-12-25 16:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Your lookin in the wrong places ! Do YOUR THING and quit tryin so hard. You have your own likes and dislikes about guys. Women grow up and mature quicker then we do ! Stop the jerky boys and start looking for a man ! The grass isn't greener !! Whatever you ENJOY and find pleasure in doing that's where you need to look ! Find a guy who's at least interested in something you are besides getting you in to bed ! I meet women all the time doing "my thing". That's what makes a good conversation and interesting experience ! DON'T push it your sending out the WRONG SIGNALS !! You already figured out what attracts the "nice GUYS" and you want alot more then that, branch out add to what you already KNOW !! Write down the qualities that have the right meaning to YOU and hey nice guys have quality standards too. I go hang at the beach and watch sunsets, I see all kinds of people, couples that to me just don't make sense. I'm not shy and have talked with lots of people, guys always try and shine at first just like women do. Ask yourself the question, "would I want me to chew my arm off to get away tomorrow morning" ! The eyes are the Window to the soul . If your looking for the perfect guy, wake up it's a fantasy !!
2006-12-25 17:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nobody is perfect
You cant expect to have someone with great looks and personality...
You never get...
You will meet a nice guy when you are faithed to!
So dont think about gettin into a relationship without making the right decision and guys can be total a$$hOle$...
Good Luck =)
2006-12-25 16:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by JeZzZ J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
effective adult adult males may be stumbled on everywhere, in basic terms like no longer so effective adult adult males can. once you're in basic terms searching for a place to met a guy that would not contain alcohol then attempt a food market. you could oftentimes tell if he's single via what's in his cart. A laundry mat. If he's there he's probably single. relies upon on your age and what you go with for. in case you do no longer suggestions him being divorced and a father...attempt a ball park for the period of slightly league sport.
2016-10-18 23:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the problem is with YOU. There are plenty of nice guys but you're not "attracted to them". Sorry, you need to learn to start loving people for their personalities and not pursue a fantasy. There is no guy who has everything in one package. Learn to be happy with nice guys. Love him and the sexual attraction will follow. You're doing it the other way round and that's wrong.
2006-12-25 16:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll find the right guy when the time is right. If you are eager though, you can try asking a friend to set you up. This way your friend knows what type of guys you like, and will set you up with someone perfect! This is also a good conversation starter!
2006-12-25 16:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by ChunkyMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best place to meet a nice guy is believe or not in a dangerous crowd dont go alone and remember this only 1 out of 100 will be a nice guy but i guarantee that he will be genuine
2006-12-25 16:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by jay b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... there are acutally nice guys everywhere but as you said "i'm not attracted to them" try going to a place you like to go. This will give you ONE thing in common with all the boys there- they like to go there. Try meeting guys there and maybe you'll have better luck with the nice thing.
2006-12-25 16:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend, who is the nicest guy I have ever met, at school. We both went to a leadership conference and we fell in love at first sight. I never thought I would meet someone so sweet. Since my divorce I have gone out with around 15 guys, all of whom I met on myspace, and none of those worked out so for personal reasons I dont recommend that for meeting the man of your dreams lol
2006-12-25 17:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by stacileigh06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you have already identified that you are at least 1/2 the problem. 1st, stop looking. 2nd, find out why you bring this out or seek out guys who are "jerks" (note they could be someone else's prince charming) 3 join some kind of club that interests you, like volleyball, scrabble, or whatever. that way you will meet someone with similar interests. a couple that plays together stays together.
2006-12-25 16:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, you'll find trashy guys in trashy places and nice guys in nice places. It all depends what kind of guy you're looking for... if you're interested in athletics, join a gym or fitness club; if you're interested in art, join an art club, or get a museum membership; if you like jazz, hang out in jazz clubs; if you like coffee and reading, hang out at a quiet coffeeplace.
Figure out what it is that you want in a guy, and what sort of interests you would like to have in common with a possible mate. Pursue those interests, have fun, get out, and meet people!
2006-12-25 16:47:01 · answer #11 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋