It's my "best friend" i'm talking about...
here's my plan:
- avoid and ignore him for a week - no text, online communication or phone calls
- hang out with all our mutual friends without him
- hang out with all the other guys i left behind
- give a "i don't care" attitude
- have fun and have a carefree approach
will this work? and nooo i don't want to talk to him about it. He's a guy...we don't talk..just do...
2006-12-25 16:37:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like i can't go and talk to him like this because he's just a friend - i'm not his girlfriend!! How high maintinence of me to say, "hey buddy - you're taking me for granted! do something!"
2006-12-25 16:47:50 · update #1
We dont know what we have until we loose it. Be yourself dont change who you are for anybody. If he can't appreciate you for you, then he's not worth the time or effort.
2006-12-25 16:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk to him about it, then you really have no relataionship to begin with. A relationship is built on communication! Maybe he doesn't know you feel this way, and he is no mind reader! All of the stuff you say you are going to do, may make him go the other way instead. It just sounds like you are mad at him and not wanting to face him to talk to him about how you feel. Grow up if you are going to be in a relationship with any one!
2006-12-26 00:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or, you could change the old way of your thought, by tell him, no big deal!!! Friend confronts friend sometime with some issues that came between them. Just talking nicely, but firm.
2006-12-26 00:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and nooo i don't want to talk to him about it. He's a guy...we don't talk..just do...
So what's the problem?
What is he taking for granted?
If you don't talk and just do...
Seem to me that you are taking him for granted just as much...
Without talking... there is no relationship and you have no right to expect anything from it.
2006-12-26 00:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silence is the best option, like you said, no communication. He will wonder what he has done and hopefully realize how stupid he really is. Best of luck!
2006-12-26 00:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by L C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being taken for granted.
2006-12-26 00:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Gowrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try them and see how it works....you sound like you dont really need an answer, you have an idea of what to do
2006-12-26 00:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow well sounds like you have a plan down so follow that and if it doesnt work then ask again next week....
2006-12-26 00:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOUNDS LIKE A PLAN GO FOR IT MY DEAR. AND HOPE ALL GOES WELL 4 YA.
2006-12-26 00:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by kelly p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but don't over do it. Play it cool. Key word: casual
2006-12-26 00:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by haniels_host 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋