2006-12-25 16:17:57 · 19 answers · asked by blondie_2262000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my opinion, if you dated your BESTFRIENDS bf, that would make you a bad friend, and if my cousin dated that dude, then ew.
and who is that guy? he dated your cousin AND bestfriend of yours? ew,
2006-12-25 16:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hellenic Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. . .BUT you absolutely HAVE to talk to your bff or cousin first!!!!
If you don't, you'll be seen as a bad friend.
This is so important that I can't say it enough. Sometimes the person will need a little time to recover since the break up. It could be a month, it could be a year. No matter how long it is, you have to respect their needs and NOT date the ex within that time. This is because friends are always more important that bfs and you will always be related to your cousin but the guy could not last.
It may seem hard to wait for that long, but think of it this way: if you and the ex were meant to be together, waiting a few months won't change that. If you weren't, better to find out and still have a friend than to date him, have it not work and have lost your friend.
In the sources, I put a link to a letter from some one who had her friend date her ex so that you can see how it might make your brr or cousin feel if you don't talk to them first.
2006-12-25 16:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would tell you no, and you bff or cousin might be hurt or upset, but I say yes. make sure it's a while after they've dated. Confront the person on how you feel about the ex and be sincere. That way they don't feel betrayed. If they still feel upset, well then that's their problem. they need to grow up. Who knows, their ex could have been your soul mate and you never would have known it. maybe god made your bff/cousin and this guy go out, just so you two could meet. good luck!
2006-12-25 16:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by charity16sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If you date that guy then your not only a true friend or a great cousin but its goin to be like your kissin you bff or your cousin, plus any bodie who dates somebodie there bff or cousin dated is not in the right state of mind. Not sayin you are but if your thinkin on doin it or you are then you are not in a state of mind, and you shouldnt even think to date that one guy. Why cant you date somebodie you found that has not been with your friends or family members. But hey its your choice if you fell its right then always remember in the back of your mind that you are hurting somebodie you claim is your bff or your cousin
2006-12-25 16:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by SunSHine18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no!! You don't ever want to date someone that your bff or cousin has dated cause then they will start to think that maybe you two were messing around when they were together. To avoid all the drama, I say no. It would make everyone's life a little easier.
2006-12-25 16:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
You don't know if they still have feelings for him. If they do, they'll passively agressively scratch your eyes out. And with family, feuds last for years. You'll never live it down. With friends, much less time.
The trick is to check the status of their feelings first. If they act like they don't care or show no interest, AND HAVE VISIBLY MOVED ON, i.e. new boyfriends., then you have a shot.
CHECK THE AIR FIRST BEFORE YOU PROCEED.
2006-12-25 16:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're buddy is a sturdy buddy do no longer permit a boy are available between. basically remember she became there from the beginning up. Or if the placement is your buddy knew you enjoyed him and then took him far off from you, you're able to tell her (yet in a advantageous calm way) which you're disillusioned appropriate to the placement. desire this enables! =]
2016-10-28 09:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hoping to have problems go for it. Personally I rather not wear the same underwear as my best friend so they don't have to tell me how it felt.
Plus no matter what people say they always have lingering feelings about people they dated.
There are enough guys left in the world to choose from don't wear your cousin's underwear
2006-12-25 16:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way yaw, your just going to broke up because of the same thing your bff or your cousin did, just forget about her and think about somebody else.
2006-12-25 16:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Matty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea, although there's nothing wrong with it. If ya'll are just passing him around til you're through with him...go ahead. If you are interested in a real relationship...then, NO.
2006-12-25 16:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋