i am falling for my best guy friend...ok we are always together. school, weekends, whenever we can we always go to the movies the mall, we took pictures together, go out to eat, we go to putt putt, we even have most of our classes together. we are always comfortable around each other. he talks to me about anything. and i do the same for him. but everytime i mention what it would be like if we dated he always gets shy. i really think he could be my highschool sweetheart. what do you think? could we be more than friends?
2006-12-25 16:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he likes you its obvious i was the same way tell him how u feel girl sounds like a perfect match to me
2006-12-25 16:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by J_DUB_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the most long lasting relationships begin as friendships. I was once told it's very important to like the person you want to be with, especially during the tough times. That being said, I wouldn't push him too hard. If he gets shy around you when you talk about dating that may be a signal that he doesn't think of you that way right now. I fell for my best guy friend and unfortunately he didn't nor ever will return the feelings. I pushed it and now our friendship is strained somewhat. So proceed very carefully. Nurture the friendship, if something more grows great! But if not you know you'll always have a good friend in your corner.
2016-05-23 07:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I sure do. You need to tell him that you love him and no matter what happens between the two of you you'll always be friends. Ask him how he feels about you. If he acts shy around you when you talk about the two of you going out. He probably does like you.
I hope you guys get together. XD
2006-12-25 16:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by LUST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lovey, wait it out. My best friend in school also shied away from people telling him that we should date, or that we were already a couple, which we were told all the time. Now we are 26, and have the best relationship, not to mention two beautiful kids. If you really have feelings for him, tell him, and give him time to absorb it, then ask how he feels. Worked for me, and I'm so happy that I was willing to wait.
2006-12-25 16:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Playful_Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know in your heart. but the thing is would you want to ruin a a great friendship if it dont work out?. Maybe you should put off the feelings that you have for him as a high school sweetheart and maybe keep them for your future husband. now you want to experience dating life..of other people. but from experience im sure your feelings are very strong that you dont want to wait. so take the risk.Life is about risk, and if they fail you learn.
2006-12-25 16:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move, either he will accept or reject, and this way you can move on...just know its always harder for guys to make the first move not because of the fear of rejection but because if they do get rejected, they may lose the friendship, so talk it out (make a move, don't jump on him), and see what happens...either way, you'll know if its just friendship or something more...if anything...u could be "friends with benefits"...kidding...:)
2006-12-25 16:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVALUATE THE FRIENDSHIP FIRST. DEBATE IF CROSSING THE LINE IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO, WHEN YOU GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH BEST FRIENDS THINGS CHANGE IN A DRASTIC WAY. YOU CANT JOKE LIKE YOU USE TOO, THE GREEN EYED MONSTER COMES OUT OF YOU. ITS HARD TO TURN BACK, JUST THINK ABOUT IT. I'VE BEEN THERE ITS NOT A GOOD THING TO LOOSE A FRIEND OVER THINKING YOU ARE IN LOVE.
2006-12-25 16:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. He is a best friend he will understand... BUT before you do anything, understand that you are taking a risk... a big risk, you may lose you best friend if things don't work out :( sorry
2006-12-25 16:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Project808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys come and go, best friends last forever. If you take the chance of changing your relationship, and it doesn't work out, there's a pretty good chance you'll lose the friendship.
2006-12-25 16:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by BuRn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could and as a matter of fact you should ask him out but tell him like this
"Will you go out with me and if u wont can we still be the best of friends"
2006-12-25 16:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by smoresanimaluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋