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Ok so i feel pretty dumb asking this because i'm sure the answer is obvious to most people, but i'm not sure what to do. my boyfriend of almost a year and i decided to take a break a couple of months ago (bad timing, lots of family problems, etc.) . i still dearly love him so that doesnt make it easy anyway, but now he's not talking to me when we're in the same social setting- especially when he's around the guys or his family. the only time he'll acknowledge me is if i say something first, which i hate doing. a mutual friend of ours who's known him forever says he's always been like that tho, even ignoring her, who is one of his close friends.

Am i overreacting to this or is there more to it? What should i do? I hate making the first move, but i dont want to be ignored either. Please Help!!

2006-12-25 16:15:27 · 2 answers · asked by lily 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

2 answers

Communicating after a break-up can be very difficult. If this guy is in your circle of friends, however, it is important that you two become comfortable communicating on a friendship level in order to keep the situation from becoming awkward.

Perhaps part of his evasion is due to the fact that he knows you "still love him dearly" and doesn't want to hurt you or to start going down that same path again.

It may be time for a one-on-one sit-down to discuss your relationship, how it has changed since your breakup, and what to do now. It may also, however, be time for you to move on and get over this relationship. It is obvious that the relationship is over and you need to put those feelings aside right now, because they're not appropriate in the friendship setting.

2006-12-25 16:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0 0

stop putting yourself in that position and get over him.

if someone really cares for you they don't want to hurt you or make you feel bad.Think about it and move on.

2006-12-26 00:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by deb m 4 · 0 0

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