okay heres the story
I met this boy online and he was VERY nice and sweet and he lives in Florida but i live in Chicago and i met him and now he is NOT talking to me i do not know his phone number just his email and he would not reply back how can i get him back i have been crying under the chrimas tree because i love him SO much how can i get him?
2006-12-25 16:10:03 · 12 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am sorry i meant Christmas tree
2006-12-25 16:10:24 · update #1
he changed his phone number or blocked me one or another.
2006-12-25 16:13:40 · update #2
heehee........sorry, it's just the way you said "evil". it just made me crack up.....sounds like you were talking about your little brother or something!! okay, right, to the point. the best I advice i can give you is to not e-mail him for a little while and if he doesn't come running to you because you're playing hard to get, then try back in about a month. I know that's not great advice, but it's the only thing i can come up with...sorry i couldn't help more. good luck with your evil lover!!! <3 really though. i hope it works out.
2006-12-25 16:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you just had an online relationship, except for one meeting, and barely know the guy, so you could not possibly be in love with him (you don't even have his phone number!) It is ridiculous to sit around crying over someone feeling all rejected over someone you barely know.
You really don't get to know a person until you spend a lot of time with them in person and most online relationships end in sorrow because the person that you thought you were in a relationship with is not who the person really is once you meet them and get to know them.
It could be that he is just busy and hasn't had a chance to reply or
it could be the worst case scenario and that when you met the chemistry just wasn't there for him and he doesn't know how to tell you that and thinks that if he doesn't respond you will eventually lose interest; it isn't right, but a lot of guys are wimpy like that.
Best bet is to stop e-mailing him and see if he e-mails you back; if he doesn't he is not interested and it is time to move on. In the meantime, enjoy your life and keep your options open.
2006-12-26 00:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that he could just be away from his computer? The holidays are a very busy time, and there could be any number of good excuses.
You do, however, need to pull yourself together and realize that this is not the only boy in the world, nor is he worth ruining your entire holiday over. After only one meeting, the chances of this being "love" are astronomically small... you need to re-assess your feelings a bit. Oftentimes people that we don't see often we tend to put on pedestals. We only see the good side of them, not the everyday side, and you need to recognize that he has flaws and weaknesses. Forget about him for a few days and enjoy your holiday.
2006-12-26 00:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, about the email, maybe he's one of those people who just don't check their email. However if you were chatting with him online and he suddenly disappeared permanently or he's not replying, I think he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. However, that's a rather cynical view, but honestly I don't think you should send him anymore emails. You've done what you could do. I think you should just leave it alone.
2006-12-26 00:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, don't waste your young life on someone that is so far away and you have no way to even visit.
There are plenty of young guys in Chicago (and cute ones too--I have been there) that would love to be your boyfriend if you gave them a chance.
2006-12-26 00:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by maamu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let hem go he lives 2 far away ne ways guys r like that sometimes they jzt like 2 play 2 much games dnt worried let hem go n it all b good
2006-12-26 00:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by 9U3R@ bBY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but maybe you wasnt what he expected or maybe somethings wrong with his computer thats happened to me I really liked a guy and my comp crashed didnt get to talk to him for awhile he thought I didnt like him anymore but that was not true my stupid comp quit so hang in there maybe something wrong with his comp.
2006-12-26 00:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by camarozsonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? he's not your "bf". how can he be your bf? you hardly met him. move on. he IS evil. and maybe, you're not his type that's why he's been avoiding you.. you don't love him, you just think you do. and you don't need him so stop thinking about him. honey, you need to have some pride and self-respect.
2006-12-26 00:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by starstrucktv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self loathing is a *****, maybe he did you a favor, and how can you love someone whos phone number you dont even know?
2006-12-26 00:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by amym1031 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him or love to talk with him? If he really love you or love to talk with you then he will be back talking with you.
2006-12-26 00:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋