We met in May and I thought she was cool so in November I asked her if we could kiss. She told me no because she had a cold sore. I kissed her anyways. I started to go out of my way to hang out with her at least twice a week. Then three weeks ago she told me that she was in love with another guy as well as me. I realized that I was in love with her too. She wanted to be with this other guy because she met him 12 years ago. Like I said how can I move on?
2006-12-25 16:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by Locked in a place no one goes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm really sorry that you're hurting, and moving on can be hard to do. but that's exactly what you have to start trying to do. even though she's probably all that's on your mind right now, start going over to some of your friends houses, go to the mall with friends, it's a great place to meet other girls, play basketball, or whatever kind of sports you're into, just keep yourself busy. it will take some time, but the more you stay focused on something other than her, the sooner the thoughts of her will start to fade. I really am sorry about what happened, but don't worry, you'll find someone who will love and appreciate you. and that's the girl who will truly make you happy.
I sincerely wish you the best.
2006-12-25 16:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't want you to kiss her. She told you that she loves someone else. What kind of additional signs do you need to move on? Some relationships are not meant to be.
On the other hand, if you move on and don't show interest to her anymore she might come back to you. But I won't bet on it.
Just find yourself another love. It'll take some time but it will happen eventually.
2006-12-26 00:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out with your friends and met new people. Soon enough the pain will fade to nothing but distant memories. And btw you can't be in love with two people it's impossible. You can have strong feelings but not love for two. Take that into account.
2006-12-26 00:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Locked In,People do go there,you should know.
Anyway,find another girl to love.You will, or if you don't ,one may find you.
The girl made her choice.
I know it hurts,but I hope you will let go and move on.
It's always easier said than done,but believe you should.
When I need to "get over" someone,I use words like,"I put them behind me,"etc.
It reminds me that althugh it did exist at one time,it no longer applies.
Thinking of a guy as "my past",helps me to let go.
Hope it helps you too.
Good luck.
2006-12-26 00:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to move on anywhere.If you love her, keep on loving her.You may feel jealousy,it is painful.
But love is love.Remember she is not your chair.You cannot put her where you want to be. Just love her.Kiss her.
If You cannot get over your jealousy,tell her about your pain straightforward.It may sound strange but enjoy your jealousy and love.Be open minded .
2006-12-26 00:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's lot of colourful fishes in the ocean...........she is not the only one......trust me!!!
2006-12-26 00:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋