One day I ws very depressed bcozmy gf ws nt talking to me and even nt responding abt my mails....reason I dnt know so I wrote a mail to her...whcih ws shwing all my depressions and her needs..bt all were very rough..nt abusive bt very rough words.
she was nt in home..so her younger sister read all the mail...
now I am feeling very uncomfortable why did I write tht mail...?
so give me the solution what should be next step?
WI dnt know what her sis mst be thinking abt me...
and even dnt Know abt her...m still nt getting her any respons...
2006-12-25 16:07:18 · 18 answers · asked by lsa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOW WRITE HER SOME GOOD MAIL AND SORRY FOR THE MAIL WHICH YOU ARE FEELING THAT NOT GOOD.
2006-12-29 00:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's, first of all, get the things right.
Do you really feel it justified that when you are dipressed, you are aloowed to behave in an indecent manner? Could you abuse? Could you send filthy e-mails (e-mails are insecure as well)? Could you afford to just malign your own impression in the family of your girlfriend (already, even before your this act, she would have worked very hard to convince them all or at least a fwe of them that you were a good guy)?
You would realise that you have committed a blunder. You have, in a way, totally spoiled your future prospects (if you had any).
In fact, you should have talked to her and if meeting & talking was difficult you should have waited for the right opportunity. REALISED? Good!
Now, the solution...
You are, first of all, required to meet your GF and express your sincere apologies on the happening. Then, you must regret the whole issue in front of her sister and ask her to forgive you and also not to disclose the matter to the other family members (I hope, she would have not done it so far).
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-25 18:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u can do is first talk to Ur girl about what Ur feeling with her behaviour and then try make her sis understand the situation u where been going through n y u wrote such mail
don't worry so much bro is just an phase n will pass soon n one day u will be thinking n laughing on this situation so just cheer up there yet many troubles r left to come in life so get ready to that OK but still life is beautiful so don't let this small thinks stress u so much OK chill n smile bye
god bless you
2006-12-25 17:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen buddy... i know how tough it is going to be for the next few days... but tell me something... how did you know that her younge sis has read the mail???? is it some sort of telepathy or her sis has replied you or you got a call from her sis.... or what???? i am not able to understand the full chain of sequence.....if none of the above, then your girl might have called up and told you that... and if she had, then you might have already taken your next step and your problem statement is hence incomplete...
for once let me think that you have got a telepathy that your mail has been read by your girl's sis....
then, the next step can be either of the two...
either you say you were joking about it in the next mail... so that she will respond to it and fight with you..... and then be romantic and tell her that she looks great when she is angry... or make up some story to cover yourself.... bt convince her that you are joking.....
or else, what you can do is send her an apology mail addressing your girl, but remembering that her sis reads it also.... say that you were angry and you didnt realise what you were saying.. you were totally lost.... and if she can, she shud forgive you... here also you have to cover your a** so make up a story....
2006-12-25 16:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there is a really wiered situation to u and u shld take every step out now very carefully and what happens next is simply decided by the chemistry in between u guys
try making her convinced that u were very much frustated and thats y u did so and dont actually meant that
2006-12-25 16:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The looks of your question ... I don’t think you have to worry ..
I don't think her little sister would have understood your mail ...
and that may be the same reason your girl friend is not responding
Well what’s next ... look for a online dictionary for your self and get your girl friend jigsaw puzzle book
2006-12-27 21:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and let her know that the emails were sent in frustration. that you were hurt and felt ignored while writing them.
I would suggest talking to her in person or at least on the phone, unless you just talk online only. it may take a little time, but if she cares for you, she will forgive. if not, then you need to move on.
good luck!
2006-12-25 18:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Solution for long-distance gf:
Flood her emails of apology.And if possbile giv her a call.
Solution for normal couples -gf:
Give her a phone call.Meet her out personally.Tell and explain what had happen.
2006-12-25 16:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by intellual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all this nonsense dear... And concentrate on the methods to live the life better... A life full of freedom... A life filled with
LOVE_TRUST_FAITH_HOPE
God Bless U
Sur
2006-12-26 19:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wrote that email the way you wrote this question, don't worry about it. Nobody will understand it anyway.
2006-12-25 16:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋