2006-12-25 16:02:52 · 24 answers · asked by Clarissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this is easy...Talk to him..Sex is never as great as it can be if you are not open and honest with each other...Be sure to tell him exactly what you want..What turns you on and what feels good..
2006-12-25 16:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uggggh! What a problem...but a fixable one.
You obviously know what you like in bed and what you don't so next time you are with him make suggestions. Tell him that you watched something on tv or a video and you want to try something new. Don't be affraid to teach him what feels good to you. Show him by you doing it first with your hands then ask him to do the same thing. Most men don't know what the g spot is or how to find it...so you have to guide him. It is all about the expierence together and if he can't make it happen then the relationship will be over sooner or later. Guide him show him and believe it or not some men think that is a turn on...cuz you show him first then let him try try try until you scream
2006-12-25 16:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think open communication is your answer.. I know that it may be difficult to come right out and say you suck in bed..lol .. you have to be sensitive to his feeling but remember your satisfaction is also important.. Don't focus on what he is doing wrong but tell him what you would like .. if he is kissing you too rough and you want him to be more gentile .. grab his face.. tell him to slow down.. start giving him direction.. remember he can't read your mind.. put his hands where you want to be.. take some control.. make a game out of it.. make it exciting for the both of you.. make him feel secure with you and trust you..start telling him what he is doing right and stop him when he is doing something you don't enjoy....say things like i like it when you do this rather then doing that...or it feels good when you kiss me here.. add toys to the bedroom.. they aren't just for solo play.. .they are great to play with each other with..
Bring it up in conversation.. play sexual truth or dare.. focus it all on sex.. ask him what he most enjoys out of making love with you.. and go from there..
Intimacy is very important in a relationship.. it can destroy a relationship out of frustration.. don't be afraid to do things to make yourself feel better.. don't be afraid to talk to him about your inter-most desires and fantasies.. i know he would prefer you go to him rather then stray..
If i can answer any more questions.. email me.. I am a Passion consultant... I sell intimate items(toys, lotions, lingerie, etc...)
~Betsy
2006-12-25 16:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to talk with him about it in a non-accusatory way? The best time to talk with him about this would not be while you are in bed; a quiet time such as during breakfast or while driving might be better. Make it very clear that you do love him, but that you are kind of hoping that he is open to learning a bit more about how to please a female in bed.
2006-12-25 16:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by rivkadacat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him and find someone who does because you will eventually end up cheating on him. Either that, or teach him how to give you good oral.
I can help you out if you want. I make all of my girls orgasm at least once a night. Satisfaction guaranteed.
2006-12-25 16:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend. Sex is the barometer of your relationship, and no matter how much you love him, sexual dissatisfaction is a relationship buster.
2006-12-25 16:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gotta go with bernie on this get a toy and satisfie yourself when he's not around,or this could mess your relationship up.
2006-12-25 16:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with boyfriends and find a husband.
2006-12-25 16:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a toy
2006-12-25 16:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to try different things, maybe you'll find out something that you can do together that IS satisfying
2006-12-25 16:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by haveabadhairday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋