so we have been together for 3 months. and now she left for 22 days to our former country! am alone for Xmas and NEW YEAR, is kind of unfair but i know how much she wanted to GO there and i even help her find the flight! but ppl WHAT SHOULD I DO! I FEEL LONELY AND SAD!! =,( should i ask her to come back?
i need advice from all of you tat have experience something similar. THANK YOU - GRACIAS
2006-12-25 15:59:27 · 11 answers · asked by JH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three months isn't very long to have been going out. You may feel very close, and missing her is definately normal, but three weeks without her is something that you can handle. Send her a care package, write her letters, and let her know that you're looking forward to her return.
2006-12-25 16:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her. The worst thing you can do at this time is feel sad and lonely. You have got to look on the bright side of things. Like she will be back in a while. You think about that and you should stay content until she gets back. Just write her every once in a while!
2006-12-25 16:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ClarissaKayeAnne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she left for 22 days well ive been away and alone for the holidays for over 3 years the way i deal with it is just by keeping ocupied and stay in high spirts she didnt say she doesnt love you or anything just be happy for her shes havin fun i hope and she wants you to do the same and when she gets back you guys will have a lot of cool things to talk about
stay happy and smile :D
2006-12-25 16:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by theo136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and follow through - you encouraged and even helped her to go, now wait like a mature adult for her return. Many of us have been in your shoes - it sucks to be away from someone you care about, but sleeping with someone you don't care about isn't the right answer.
2006-12-25 16:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love her let her go and if she comes back then she is true to you...
Holidays sux to be alone and you are caught up in the emotional rollercoaster that goes along with the couples and babies and family and friends...kissing under the missletoe and on the stoke of the new year...but come on...it is what you make it to be... you keep your head up high and if someone came along right under your nose...and you hit your head and fell in love...is it wrong? or meant to be?
2006-12-25 16:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can ask her to come back bcuz you already helped her leave. she would be very dissapointed and probably upset. if you really can't wait to be with her again, maybe you shud get plane tickets too and meet her there. It would be a really nice new year's surprise for her.
2006-12-25 16:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you feel is normal . abstence make the heart grow funder. find something to do and try to hold on she'll be back and missing you too!
2006-12-25 16:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up man she will be back soon let her enjoy her visit
2006-12-25 16:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is coming back dont mess up her time with her family. be a man suck up she is coming back.
2006-12-25 16:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice of you. But be patient it will pay late
2006-12-25 16:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋