2006-12-25 15:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by computergrl69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well are u secure with him? why should it matter what she is doing around him or callin him...he is with you now right? if he is a genuine nice guy and not playing you both, then you have nothing to worry about...jealousy kills the relationship. if it is a good relationship u have nothing to worry about at all!
2006-12-25 15:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, there isn't such a thing as "too nice to say get lost." if a guy cares about u alone and enjoys being in your company, he will move everyone in the way to see you. It seems that maybe he's still holding on to his past... This sounds like a relatively new relationship, which would explain the inability to let go. I'd say wait a little while, then see how things develop. If he doesn't make the choice to tell her off by himself, dont bother convinving him. it must be his choice.
2006-12-26 00:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by X16 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey...better lay your cards open as early as possible...tell your boyfriend that you're not comfortable having his ex hanging around. Tell him that if he wants your relationship with him to succeed then he must find a way to send the stop signal to his ex. If still your bf...will not make a move...maybe...you better wake up...start weighing things as early as possible before it's too late...no use staying at present with your bf...if he doesn't want to bid a complete adieu with his past...because a relationship like this has no future in store ahead. Happy holidays!!!
2006-12-26 00:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is the deal. She has the memory and you have him. If your bf won't tell her to get lost than you got to be a little harsh in this area. Show public displays of affection. This will usually draw a picture for her. If the bf has no b*lls to tell her to get lost than you might want to tell him to get lost.
Good luck
2006-12-25 23:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by onebadmedic01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am kind of in the same situation. My bf of 2 years still talks to a few of his ex'x on a regular basis. It drives me insane. I fianly put my foot down and said its them or me. I loved out of our house and will not go back until that **** is done and gone. Your bf needs to figure out where his priorities lay at. Do not put yourself behind them or accept it.
2006-12-25 23:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try setting her up. She may find a match or get fed up.
Seriously, talk to your boyfriend and ask him to create more distance with his ex. It may be a lifeline he is keeping.
2006-12-26 00:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by pheelingud 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait before I called him my bf. And he needs some time off himself.
2006-12-25 23:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by marindoll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAKE HIM CHOOSE!!! EITHER SHE GETS LOST OR U LEAVE!! AND HE LOOSES U!
2006-12-25 23:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by vballr4evr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on their relationship I think.
2006-12-25 23:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Steve V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how involved were they?........anyway tell him how you feel
2006-12-25 23:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Skierstar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋