2006-12-25 15:52:17 · 27 answers · asked by Skwooshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he wants to spend more than just time with you. If you are asking for help than I would say you are not ready for this yet even though you may find the idea interesting. Take your time. If he really wants to spend more time with you he will wait a little longer for you to be sure.
2006-12-25 15:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by GPHS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm how old are you and will it just be yall two. If its your first time of staying together and your only lets say 10-19 you should defently have someone else with you two there specially if he is older. Make sure you know him very well before you stay with him and dont stay until you are comfortable about it.
2006-12-25 23:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO.
There are plenty of hours in the day to spend time together; there is no good reason for you to spend the night.
"Spending time together" is VASTLY different than "spending the night." Generally speaking, "spending more time together" is probably NOT his first motive here. Honestly, the guy sounds like a creep to me.
2006-12-25 23:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 people can sleep together, with out doing anything. u have the right to say no. take to him and let him know how u feel about staying the night. if he is a gentlemen he will understand. good luck.
2006-12-25 23:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you need help with??
Think about it, how old are you?
Are you marrying this guy?
Do you want to be one of those girls that racks up the numbers and then 2, 4, 6 years from now present yourself to your husband on wedding night like " here ya go, used goods".
2006-12-25 23:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Its me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because he asked u to spend the night does NOT mean that hes expecting sex. You know people do just sleep TOGETHER, like without doing anything sexual. Do what's comfortable for you, and let him know that you aren't ready for sex. He should respect that.
2006-12-26 00:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no my dear, that's very tempting for him and for you to be doing that. You need to stay away from that if I where you. Go out more with him but not on the bed. How can you prove it to yourself, if he really loves you. Believed me I've been there and it works by phone and going out for dinner.
2006-12-25 23:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by teylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmms.Up to you.Just do thing you like with or preferred.Stay the night wif yr bf if its mean spending more time with him then so be it but do you think is fine?
2006-12-25 23:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by intellual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ! How do you feel about that ? y the way itsounds you are not confortable with that idea. Just say no ! tell him if he wants to spend more time with you he will get creative in ways you are ok with.
2006-12-25 23:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by mindy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a difference between quality awake time and time in the sack.
You should get a ring before you get in the sack.
2006-12-25 23:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Curly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋