My ex dumped me for a younger girl (I'm 32 , he's 31 and she's 20)... so now I am having 'age' issues. Everyone I know tells me I'm crazy. I'm fit, healthy, look like I'm 25 and take really good care of myself... but he's made me feel like a worthless old woman. What is my problem? Do other women feel like this, too? Please give me some tips to get over this? thanks...
2006-12-25 15:50:20 · 8 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh.. and she dumped him a week later! heehee
2006-12-25 15:50:35 · update #1
all the guys i know would kills to date a girl older than themselve. your ex probably wasnt a wise person to have dumped YOU for someone so much younger than himself. it's normal to be upset after a break up i guess, but don;t blame yourself, he made the mistake.
there are tons of guys out there, hopefully your next will be better looking and nicer and more loving.
2006-12-25 15:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by heylomaylo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know relation ship has nothing to do with age as long as there is love and peace in between so i know of one relation ship like yours which has developed so do not loose hope because you never know you mind some one younger i am 22 and dated a woman your age but she moved to another country other than that every thing was going fine i would have eventually married her but no body knows the future we only have control over the free will
2006-12-25 23:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be single soon i'm 31, I look 25 shaved and 40 with a beard ;)
Don't take it too hard, I'm sure your just fine. Oviously your x did'nt think things out too well though.
2006-12-25 23:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop judging yourself by HIS standards. When you take him out of the picture, how do you see yourself? You've already said you're fit, healthy, take care of yourself ... are YOU happy with yourself?
If not, figure out what YOU don't like & change it. It's not about age. It never has been. It's about perception. Use YOURS not his and you'll be fine.
2006-12-25 23:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women come into their beauty when they are in their 30's. So, don't worry about him because he is chasing his youth. He'll find out he doesn't have anything in common with this baby, and she will be looking for her next guy because that is what 20 yr olds do.
2006-12-26 00:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real idiot. No real loss for you from what I can see. It also sounds like he got what he deserved being dumped a week later. You got the last laugh on this one...
2006-12-25 23:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was his loss. Just keep telling yourself that.
2006-12-25 23:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he got what he deserved ...
2006-12-25 23:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋