My girlfriend(now ex- but only due to her family circumstances) says Im good in bed. But she also states that I'm better with my hands and tongue rather than my...thing...
I was somewhat insulted but also considured it a compliment. But does it fit more into one of the catagories?
Yes people I am being serious, I'm not trolling. I'm just confused at what I should take it as.
2006-12-25 15:27:15 · 24 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a compliment
2006-12-25 15:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by laney45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn hun, take that as a compliment, if it gets the job done, go for it, And I am sure she was not trying to insult you, maybe she was nicly saying you lack a little experience in bed, but still you have great qualities of making her feel good.
Don't sweat the small stuff
2006-12-25 23:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a complement.
I have an ex-gf who got more turned on by my nibbling on her neck than anything else. She could climax from that type of non-intercourse activity.
So I would expect she is something along the same in that the gentle touch, the message, the physical contact does more for her than the actual act.
I have found this to be true of many women.
I would give advice that you investigate other ways to enhance that type of activity...
2006-12-25 23:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by markymarvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is better with their hands and tongue than their 'thing', unless your little man has small appendages and/or an opposable thumb, don't worry, it's because you have more control with your tongue and hands, it's a great compliment, she was a lucky girl!
2006-12-25 23:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Miss S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just gonna tell u straight.Dats a compliment 4 ur hands and tongue but n insult 2 ur...thing but then again she says ur BETTER wit ur hands and tongue so......
2006-12-25 23:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Colts Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you need to do some work on the actual act, but you are good at getting her all hot and bothered during foreplay.
I think I would pry a little more and find out what you need to work on...you actually have an advantage over most guys, because most guys aren't very good with their mouth and hands, and IMHO, its easier for you to work on your banging than for them to work on that stuff...
Find out what you need to work on---stamina, positions, angles, speed, etc... if she is gonna tell you something like that, I'm sure she will let you know exactly what it is she didn't like...
2006-12-25 23:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by matter2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some chicks get an orgasm better with a more hands on approach that you cant achieve with other parts of the body. Id learn some new moves but dont be offended
2006-12-25 23:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a compliment. she was being totally honest with you and thats hard to find. look at it as a chance to improve or try some new moves....plus that was only one chick. someone else may think what you do is totally hot....
2006-12-25 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by amber2u_00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a compliment! SHe didn't say you were bad otherwise just you have a special talent with your tounge and hands. Be happy many don't.
2006-12-25 23:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't say you were bad with your thing just that you were better with your hands and tongue. compliment
2006-12-25 23:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Keith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what gets her off. If it's oral and hand action instead of actual intercourse, than you should take it as compliment.
2006-12-25 23:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by chokolaite_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋