We live in different states and talk once a week . We've made our feelings known to each other, but he didn't call and wish me a Merry Christmas. Should I take this into consideration? It's been about two months that we expressed our feelings, even though we've known each other about 5 years and dated briefly before I moved. Please help.
2006-12-25 15:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by suenos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he said he would call and didnt then treat it as is: a lie. But think, maybe he didnt want to intrude on your holiday.
2006-12-25 15:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by katyk08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just giving you your space to spend time with your family. However, he should have sent you a text wishing you a happy holiday. OR maybe he was really busy, but then, if a guy likes you, he'll take the risk of getting your voice mail to wish you "Merry Christmas"!
2006-12-25 15:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by chokolaite_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either very young ( I think not), or you are very niave!
Of course he's telling you something!!!
And exactly what were these feelings you made known to each other, because it sure isn't anything romantic, or of love, if
he can't even send you a christmas present, never mind the calling you, THAT SHOULD HAPPEN AUTOMATICALLY when you 'really' love someone.
Sorry sweetie, he really does 'NOT love you.
I don't care 'what' he has 'said', actions DO speak louder than words, and 'true' love is 'full' of action.
2006-12-25 15:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Most cell phones have several diversion modes, each can be to a different number. Leave your "Divert on Busy/Unanswered" the same as they are now, but divert your Reject Call to the local Police station. When you see his number come up - reject it and let him argue with the local Police. Of course if you could find another gang members girlfriend's phone number and divert to that you would probably get even more interesting results.
2016-05-23 06:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about it, he was probably busy with his family. Next time you talk to him, he'll hopefully ask you how your Christmas was, and this is basically the same as saying Merry Christmas on the actual day.
2006-12-25 15:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to him? Is your relationship serious? How far do you live apart? Are you hoping for something that's not possible? You sound like a nice girl, maybe it's just time to move on. You'll know by how long it takes for him to call you.
2006-12-25 15:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again and see if he has a good reason. It's up to you to decide, there are about a million things to take into consideration.
2006-12-25 15:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Interested 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but he is obviously pre-occupied. If nothing else he should of flown to see you. Maybe this is his way of giving you a subtle hint. Obviously your not the most important thing in his life right now.
2006-12-25 15:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your relation so fragile that just because he did not call ? Why dont you call . Absence is to LOVE what WIND is to Fire, It extinguishes the SMALL, and INFLAMES the great.
If you love some one SET it FREE if it comes back then it is YOURS if it Does'nt then it NEVER was
2006-12-25 15:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Shriram M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him first why?Merry Christmas
2006-12-25 15:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋