My daughter is 10 and "did it" with her boyfriend!?

Question

I walked in and she was just wearing underrware and he was naked completly I grownded her for 2 days is that enough. I also made her brake up with him and find a new boyfriend.

Answer 1

First of all, how do you know that they had sex. They probably were getting ready to have sex. Secondly a 10 year old has no business whatsoever considering a male as her boyfriend. I really think that is a little to early to be trying to date. They are still in elementary, you know, in that crush stage. Thirdly, why was he over to her/his home alone without adult supervision in her bedroom. Somewhere there is not proper parenting going on. I also don't think two days grounding her is enough for punishment. It seems to me like someone needs to start paying more attention to their child among other things.

Answer 2

I agree wit the person above. She doesn't need 2 have a bf at the age of 10. she needs 2 be enjoying being a kid, not worrying about what some boy thinks of her. If u have 2 ask if grounding her for 2 days is good enuff... what do u think? Do u think she'll learn her lesson in 2days. There needs 2 be a bigger punishment and she really needs a rude awakening when she tries 2 do things like an adult would. Seems like u have ur hands full so I wish u the best of luck.

Answer 3

You made her break up with her boyfriend?? That's the problem, she shouldn't have had a boyfriend to begin with. She's ten for God's sake. What on earth would a 10 year need with a boyfriend?? She is NOT mentality stable to have an intimate relationship of any kind. I have boys that are 18 and 16 year old and I'm firm about not dating until 16 . . . school should be a priority.

Answer 4

What are you doing letting your ten year old have a boyfriend? Are you kidding me. I have a cousin the same age as your daughter.. And just the thought of her doing ANYTHING like that grosses me out. And grounding her for 2 days would be the least of my child's problems if that ever happened.

Find a new boyfriend? You don't deserve to be a parent. She is TEN YEARS OLD! She shouldn't even be THINKING about boyfriends.

EDIT:: I just read your questions. Thank God you're not serious, but you know what? You need to get a life. I hope you're a child, because if you're an adult, you should be arrested for even thinking about a ten year old having sex.

Thanks for the two points.

Answer 5

First of all, a 10 year old should not have a boyfriend. Second, why were they left in a situation where this would be possible. Third, go have a birth control device implanted into her arm. This works for 5 years and she won't have the responsibility of taking a pill every day or raising a child she might conceive.

Answer 6

WHAT? why was they in a room alone? and with the door closed? She is 10 yrs old for pete sakes.ok for 1 did you explain about the birds and bees to her? and let her know she should not be doing that till she is married? I am not sure if she even understand what she was doing.and telling her to find a new boyfriend is a mistake,my daughter is 14 and don't have a boyfriend.you need to talk to her and get this under control.keep more of an eye on your young daughter.

Answer 7

No. This was not enough. You should take her to see a women giving birth to witness the labor pains and all, as well as watch or be present during a c-section. Next have her change poopy diapers and stay up at least for 1-2 full nights with a mother of a newborn. This will help her see REALITY, and scare her off sexual mis-conduct for good.

Act quick or soon she'll be taking a pregnancy test.

Before a male EVEN feels that he is about to "release" there's a thing called "pre-ejaculation" one drop of semen can contain hundreds of sperm. All it takes is one time.

Check for pregnancy symptoms. (not in any particular order)

missed cycle (some women continue to have spotting)
nausea (any time of day, not just morning sickness)
dizziness
fatigue
increased vaginal discharge (leukorrhea)
constant urination (especially getting up alot at night)
tender breasts
darkened aereolas
food cravings (food, & non-food items such as dirt or styro-foam)
food aversions
unability to lay on tummy due to soreness of the abdomen
cramping in the abdominal area
swelling (water retention)
heigtened sense of smell
linea negra (a line that appears down the middle of your abdomen from right beneath your breasts to your pelvis, it gets darkers as the hormones increase in your body)

Hope this helps!

Answer 8

You should have tore her butt up and grounded her for 2 years. What is a 10 year old doing alone with a boy anyways. My daughter is almost 11 and there is no way in hell that I would let her have a boyfriend.

Answer 9

First of all, a 10 year old is way to young for a boyfriend. Secondly, if you are to punish her at all it should definitely be more than just a grounding for two days. Plus, you really should sit down and talk to her before any punishment occurs.

Answer 10

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me u r totally kidding with us! 10 years old doing the deed? and your reaction was 2 days grounding and making her find a NEW BOYFRIEND and get rid of this one? Hmmmmmmmmmm not how Id react at all! Did u talk to this kids parents at all? Did u talk to your daughter at all? Id be taking her for a full doctors exam and if she is active getting her the shot so she cant get pregnant for 5 yet and grounding would atleast be a mont and NO NO NO NO NO NO NO new boyfriend at all or the old one for that matter! u need to talk with your daughter- u need to keep closer tabs on her obviously! U need to definetely have the sex talk- good lord she should NOT even be interested in sex yet!