i think i might be pregant, and i dont know how to tell my mom,and dad, im really scared, and i dont know what to do,im only 15........, i cant stop crying, i just cant take my mind off of it, i took a 2 different test, 1 was possitve, the other, was nagative, im showing all of the signs, wat now?
2006-12-25 14:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by todays the day 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
honesty is the best answer....sooner or later they will know. Quick and straitforward is easiest. Then they may be mad at first, but if they are good parents, they will come around. Its always best if they know.. you need to let them know since ur a minor and need the best care possible for you and the baby. Goodluck!
2006-12-25 15:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by code_blue_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. There is no easy answer to this question, I would test again and see what a third test says but I'm thinking that you are pregnant b/c it is extremely rare to get a false positive. At your age it is very important that you tell your parents...they are not going to be happy, but you are thier daughter and they will love you regardless. If you don't think that you can bear to sit them down and tell them face to face, I would suggest writting a letter and just letting it all out. That way they have the chance to hear everything that you want to say and they can not interrupt you. Also go to your school nurse, I'm sure that she can give you a test or some advice on what to do from a medical stand point. I wish you the best of luck and stay strong, everything that does not kill you can only make your stronger.
2006-12-25 22:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey's Mommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is there a free clinic in your area or a planned parenthood clinic? Go and get a professional pregnancy test before you freak out about this. Go to your school guidance counselor or social worker and discuss the situation. Don't hold all your worry inside. Believe it or not this is NOT the worst thing that could happen to you. And raising a child does not have to ruin your life or the child's. There are so many people wanting to adopt. God bless you and best wishes.
2006-12-25 22:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by CapeCodGram 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey your going to have a baby cause if even one said pooitive then thats what it is it might sound scary to u now cause u are only 15 but that doesnt matter you will get through this with your parents support or not but its all up to you!! im just wright this because i just turned 18 and im 8 and a half weeks preg and before i told my mom i thought she was going to kill me but bring a baby into the world just makes it so much better hope this helps you out!!! if u need to talk im me mypnut788@aim.com
2006-12-29 15:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to a doctor, or buy another test. Get a good brand, by now it will show you for sure! Most likely if it said possitive, then you are. Don't be scared. They will prolly be upset at first, but they'll get over it, and just wait till you get to plan everything for the baby, it's wonderful! Your life isn't over, just be honest to them, but make sure you know if you are or not for sure first. Goodluck
2006-12-25 23:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to talk to an adult- hopefully your mother or father. You need to see a doctor and have a test done and go forward - if you are pregnant, choose life.Adoption is the one true loving option. Too much to think about alone, young one. Humble yourself and seek the help of a friend's mother, pastor, guidance counselor. Best to you. After this? No unprotected sex- PERIOD.
2006-12-25 22:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by C. S 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if one showed up possitive then sounds like ur going to have a baby good luck!
2006-12-25 22:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to tell yoour parents want to or not. i was 17 and pregnant it is hard if you are pregnant you are an adult now like it or not just do the best you can God will see you through if you let him
2006-12-25 22:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Catie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to the doctor and double check
and if its positive
see if the doctor will be willing to sit down with you to tell your parents
2006-12-25 23:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-25 22:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋