I really like this guy and we tell each other we love each other. I said he could see other girls if he gets lonely but he said no he is totally committed to me. So, do I see other guys or do I do like him and be committed to him and if I can't just break up with him?
2006-12-25 14:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by amyth74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do "you" both have future plans-Together? If you both Really and truely LOVE each other then you must also make the commitment he is making. To say and mean the words I LOVE YOU should never be any question as to being faithful, honest and sincere. Should either of "YOU" even attempt to cross that imaginary line then your together future wasn't meant to be. I think you must ask yourself the question of do you want to subdue your feelings and emotions only to live with the life long regret of cheating. For you to allow him to see other girls really says you want to see other guys, alright. Honestly you DO NOT WANT a phone call or a email telling you he found someone else.
2006-12-25 14:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold up, you said you really like him, yet are telling him you love him. That right their is messed up, b/c love is a powerful word and should only be used when is true! Secondly, if you both are in a serious relationship with each other, then it doesnt matter how far distance is b/w you. You should not cheat! Different zip codes does not make cheating ok! If you cant be faithful to him, then you should not be claiming to love him and stay with him. Be fair to him and if cant stay faithful to him then tell him you want to see other people along with him, that way he has a choice on whether he wants to be so serious with you.
2006-12-25 14:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to date other people and not tell him that just makes you a cheater. If you have told him that he can see other women he probably already know that you don't love him. There is no way in the world ANY woman in love is gonna give her man a permission slip to date other women. I think that if you just like him, tell him that. Why play all the games??? Just be real! Be honest! Why waste each others time? But you really need to tell him how your feeling!!!!!!
2006-12-26 02:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in other guys...you dont love him..and you shouldnt keep him to your web. You need to be honest with him. I have dated my man for 3 yrs in a long distance relationship and I have never had an interest in finding attention from another guy. If you seriously want to..you need to call it off. it isnt fair to him and it's unfaithful. he deserves that respect. it's your decision. You cant have both, make a decision.
2006-12-25 14:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think so. Because iif he is far away you have no idea what he is doing so far off. You can only talk over the phone and email right? Can you ever go on dates. You are missing out on better guys that are where you live.
2006-12-25 14:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him... Tell him how you are feeling...
You should break it up... I am having a long distance relationship, but I wouldn't cheat on my boyfriend, I wouldn't even think about it. So if you feel like that you HAVE TO TALK TO HIM.
2006-12-25 14:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him no. Do you love him is the question? You are asking to see other guys so evidently not, just let him go. Be kind to him and real to both of you.
2006-12-25 14:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, it is long distance so he is probrably cheating on you. if you dont feel comfortable, tell him what you want to do, and just dont cheat on him. wait until you make up your mind.
2006-12-25 14:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋