Well I used to like him and he knew it, but he started going out with my best friend, and I stopped liking him and he knew it...
Then he asks casually who I like now, and after i slow danced with his best friend he told me that his friend was a fag for doing that. We hung out as usual but a week later he told me I wasn't allowed to talk to his friend anymore because they're in a fight....
Why is he acting like this when he still likes my best friend a lot?
(sorry I keep asking this but I need more answers)
2006-12-25 14:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can't have it both ways....don't take orders from him. Do whatever makes you feel good. Or on the other hand, he's either selfish or just trying to protect you from his friend who's probably an a**hole!!!!
2006-12-25 14:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Hold on, I've seen this scenerio before and the solution is simple so I'm going to be very blunt with you and I hope it shocks some sense into you.
As you describe this guy, simply put, he is a jerk, big time and could eventually drag you through a life of so much pain you can't even imagine. For your own good, let him go, (DUMP HIM)!!!! He's not worth waisting valuable emotional capital on. That is unless you are so desperate for warmies that you think you can't get along without him. In that case you are also a jerk and you deserve each other.
So who am I? Just a fuzzy, lovable old grandpa, whose seen a thing or two over my years, Good luck
I am shockeedoc
2006-12-25 14:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by shockeedoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't let him tell you what to do. He seems like a jerk and he has no right to tell you who you should talk to.
It sounds like to me you need to ask him why the heck is he acting the way he is acting. He is causing confusion for no reason... don't let him confuse your mind. Try to get some answers out of him considering he still likes your best friend alot.
Also, he can't have his cake and eat it too. He can't have you and your best friend at the same time. He isn't a friend to his best friend if he came to you and called him names behind his friend back. He sounds like he's really immature and that is why he's acting the way he is. He doesn't know what to do with himself accept be a jerk.
Again, don't let him tell you what to do. Who does he think he is? Ugh! He is so not your boyfriend.
2006-12-25 14:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do a lot of things that we don't understand. Just like men don't understand why we do the things we do. It's in our nature. Keep on talking to his friends. never let a man tell you what to do and not to do. Ask him why is acting like this and take it from there.
2006-12-25 14:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants it all! He wants you AND your best friend. He can't have it both ways. He is jealous that you danced with his friend.
He doesn't sound very mature. You shouldn't be serious with a guy like him. He will keep confusing you.
2006-12-25 14:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes the ego boost that you liking him gives him. That's it. You know the old, "I don't want you but don't want you to want anyone else...".
And as far as him telling you you're not allowed to talk to his friend anymore, I would be absolutely appalled if you followed that advice. Who the hell is he???
2006-12-25 14:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, well, since you changed your attittude towards him of course he's going to change his towards you. Men aren't like crap shields where they just keep taking it no matter what. Relationships with men are more reciprocal than with women.
2006-12-25 14:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Hotwad 980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even bother with him he sounds like an a** hole and u dont need to bother w/ guys like him. find a guy who'll treat you and his friends better, he cant forbid you to hang oput w. his friends, uve got a life too
2006-12-25 14:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tel him kiss your a.ss and talk to his friend..it just sounds like he's jealous because he see's ur not jealous of him and ur friend anymore and he see's u've moved on..which is good
2006-12-25 14:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by t0xic_n_addictiv3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DOESN'T WANT YOU BUT IS SOOO SELF CENTERED THAT HE DOESNT WANT YOU TO WANT ANYONE BUT HIM. I THINK YOUR FRIEND ISNT YOUR FRIEND AND THAT YOU SHOULD BLOW THEM BOTH OFF. TO MANY GAMES WITH INSECURE PEOPLE FOR ME. BE STRONG AN TELL HIM TO FFFF OFF. HE IS A BIG LOOSER TURN OFF!
2006-12-25 14:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋