It will be not hard to change it; don't worry. Whatever you were signing, if it is not signed by a judge, it has no value. When you go to court (you will have to go to court now), say to a judge that at the time you were signing those papers, you were under severe emotional distress and because of that you could not control what you are doing. When I was going through all that custody mess, the same thing happened to me too. I was so stressed out, upset, and desperate financially that I got mad and pissed off and signed everything to my ex at the custody mediation session, including the full custody of my daughter. Then, I got scared of what I did, and went to court and said to the judge that I signed off the custody and everything else because I was really upset and stressed out emotionally at that time. The judge said that things like that are happening all the time, and he nullified those papers/ No agreements have value in a family court if they are not signed by a judge.
2006-12-25 15:56:36
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answered by OC 7
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If you appearance was requested in court - GO- or the court will see it as you have no problem with the current arrangement. this may be your only chance to voice your change of heart.
If you signed temporary paperwork "he" only has to show that as proof you have no problem with her staying with him. Your not being there enforces his claim.
If you changed your mind get a lawyer fast , contact the court that you are obtaining counsel and expect a fight.
2006-12-25 14:24:07
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answered by Akkita 6
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I did not go before a judge but we had the papers notarized. If they where not notarized or have a Judges Signature, then they are not valid. This sounds like it is going to have to be solved in court no matter what.
2006-12-25 14:18:20
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answered by Common Sense 5
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i agree thoroughly with the first answer, basically have them supply the money decrease back to you. see you later as you're helping with clothing and and so on you recognize your mother and father wouldnt options and esp considering they presented which could help you adult males out. that is possibly your basically selection so that's basically what i'd do. somewhat perception to why they are probably doing this-- imagine kid help in case you and your husband were getting divorced or maybe if whoever had the toddler would finally end up having to pay toddler help. because the toddler continues to be your its basically they have custody of him and stuff because the mother and father they are making you legally to blame to assist preserve him. until eventually you're waiting to enable your mother and father undertake the toddler i imagine that's the basically way round this and considering its basically momentary i dont imagine you adult males are prepared to bypass to those extremes. my grandparents followed me leaving my mother and father with out responsibilty over me. at the same time as your toddler is followed although you've extremely no say what so ever in what occurs with that kid. yet im wondering you and your mother and father would ought to artwork some thing out because the state is doing what it thinks is straightforward and that i dont imagine there is any way round it.
2016-12-01 04:22:46
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answered by ? 4
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Talk to a custody lawyer.
2006-12-25 14:13:07
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answered by redunicorn 7
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Were there witnesses? I would talk to a lawyer.
2006-12-25 14:09:29
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answered by Anonymous
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are they notarized?
2006-12-25 14:14:29
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answered by kissmy 4
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