so theres this girl i know, i only met her a couple of times but for some reason i CAN NOT GET THIS GIRL OUT OF MY MIND. the first time i met her i hit on her and she rejected me, then goes and tells her friend how she thinks im "so hot" and that she regretted "not doing stuff with me" see the thing is she has a boyfriend...one that she actually likes.....i dont understand how i barely know this girl...ive never even hooked up with her and i think i cant stop thinking about her. so im asking u wtf should i do. do i leave it alone, or try to get her anyways. im just ******* confused.
2006-12-25 13:21:53 · 13 answers · asked by tjthemac84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive been in the same situation as you, like a girl that might like me but has a man. heres what you have to do, or what i did..
find out if she really likes you, sometimes friends lie, but if you ask enough people, you will get a good answer. if she doesnt, just play it cool and move on to your next conquest, if she does want you....
dont hit on her, start off slow, maybe just a look. if you catch her looking back, give her a smile. if she smiles back, she either thinks your funny looking or likes you. now go up to her and start a conversation, but nothing too intimate, just get to know her, earn her trust. now, heres where it can get ugly...
you can keep in this path until you woo her over or you can knock the other guy over. basically be a c*ck blocker and try to break them up. but you have to do it undercover, use your head. get her to talk about the things she hates about him and emphasis that your not like him, but dont put him down, just say that maybe thats his way of liking her, this will make her think your considerate, but your really gaining points.
the last thing to do is when you think its time and shes basically forgotten about her man, move in
2006-12-25 13:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by alton956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, man these tips should help you get her....
Flirt with her. Start off light, you don't want to come on too strong or else you will look needy and desperate. You want to come off as confident and humorous, not devoid and lonely.
Make sure she has some sort of basic attraction to you. You will find this out if she tries to make body contact with you. Always look at a woman's body language; flipping her hair, leaning in towards you, staring at your lips, or touching your arm or leg are all good signs that she's into you.
Make sure she has a good time whenever she's with you. This is easier than it sounds; just keep things light and positive.
Get her number and spend 10 minutes on the phone with her and make small talk, and ask her out. Say, "Hey, come over to my house and we'll watch that movie you like".
When it's time for her to go home, stare deep into her eyes and say, "Whoa, your hair is so soft," and stare at her lips and back into her eyes. If she's still staring at you then go in and kiss her, no questions asked. If she looks away, say, "Alright, thanks for the good time, take care."
If things don't go so well, that's cool. There are other girls out there. She may seem like "the one", but there are many others that will make you feel the same way.
Try and touch her leg or arm. If she lets you, that's good. If she says something about it then back off and slow down a little. Don't push too hard; just a light touch.
2006-12-25 21:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move yet. Wait until she is single. Until then go out for lunch with her and get to know her better. Then when the break up you will be there to pick her up and help to get her back on her feet.
2006-12-25 21:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should keep going for her. or make them break up then go and get her. how you do that is completely up to you. you could spread a rumor about him like cheating on her or something or come up with you own crazy scheme. then when she's single go and get her. it will be worth it if you like her so much
2006-12-25 21:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her number and start out slow. Give her a call and talk a while. You'll be able to figure it out after you get to know her better.
2006-12-25 21:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to her. Go!!! She thinks you are hot so that means she likes you. Try it and if she don't do anything, then forget it. But first try...
2006-12-25 21:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, dont mess with anyone elses g/f or b/f. beside, you only liked her because she rejected you.
2006-12-25 21:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by katienebraska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find a way to hook up with her.
2006-12-25 21:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become her friend so her boyfriend won't think that your trying to get his girl and than if you get to her she'll eventualy dump the other guy.
2006-12-25 21:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Flame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook up with her somehow. u can wait for her until she breaks up with her boyfren. or u can still ask her out and if she likes u more than him, she'll break up with him. anyways. goodluck
2006-12-25 21:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋