okay. i'm 13. so, of course, i talk on the phone all of the time. but, my boyfriend hates talking on the phone. we talk on the computer and in person all of the time, but never the phone. so, i finally got him to talk to me on the phone (right now). except, he's not really talking. what should i try to talk about... i've tried everything that i can think of... help. and hurry!!!*
2006-12-25 13:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by (( .gabi♥. )) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give up and use the comp. my cuz was the same way and still doesnt talk to his g/f on the phone for more then a min
2006-12-25 13:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by tom4twizzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, good time to learn something about relationships.
"You can't change him. Accept him the way he is".
Ever hear "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink". Well, you can lead your boyfriend to the phone, but . . .
If you talk on the computer and in person then you talk enough. Call your friends and talk about him. (I'm sure you want to brag) You do have to accept him or your constant need to change him will end with the realtionship.
There's probably a good reason he doesn't talk on the phone, like his parents probably listen in. Guess you cojdl ask, but you'll probably get, "Cause I don't like to". After all, he is a boy.
2006-12-25 21:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 Year Old Boys...
Action Movies
Sports
Video Games
Music
Xmas gifts
His day
The best way to have a conversation with someone who doesn't talk much is to start a topic and with everything they say you respond with another question that keeps the conversation going.... Example...
What football team to you think will go to the super bowl?
he answers....
Really... why is that?
he answrs.....
Oh so who do you think the best player is?
See... just keep going- you can do that with almost any subject.
Good luck.
2006-12-25 21:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate the phone. We hate the Phone, men hate the phone I hate the phone and I'm a man. You speak in person, and he likes to IM you because he can look at stuff and do other things. He likes to look at you and talk because you are pretty. What more do you want. Let the poor guy off the damn phone. Men hate phones we hate phone I hate pohones men hate phones. Got it?
2006-12-25 21:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to worry about what a young man doesn't want to do, u will have the rest of your life to talk on the phone, don't let him worry u . I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18.
2006-12-25 21:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by carmexornothing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try thing about what u are gonna do next time u go see him.
When u cal him or he calls u don't say wait hold on i have another call or talk to other people cause it's rude. U can talk to them aytime u want to
2006-12-25 21:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry to say soem people are just liek that. like me. ill talk in person to a gf all i want and on the internet ide say even more. but a phone is just... silence... i dunno why i jsut hate it. u can live around it if u try tho. the internet usually works the best tho
2006-12-25 21:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by xirekaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having that same problem with my new guy. But the main problem is that he lives in Seattle and I live in Texas. So it's not like I can just drive to see him if I want.
2006-12-25 21:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
want to go to a chatroom?
you can go to a chatroom with voice.
with the phone, people can overhear your conversation and people get really chatty on the phone.
2006-12-25 21:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mystikdancer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him how his christmas went!!! what do you talk about on the comp, just put into words!
2006-12-25 21:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋