Feeling stuck in my relationship. Help!?

Question

Ive been with this guy for two years,and i am head over heals in love with him. He gradually became late and wouldnt call or stop by. Then he would never show up at all.He never calls me, never answers my calls but claims hes too busy. We are now in a long distance relationship and hes made no effort whatsoever to come see me. What should i do?

Answer 1

Yikes Kitten...this doesn't sound good.
I hate to say this, but it sounds as though he has lost interest. If he truly cared about you, he'd make the effort. I know it would be difficult, but try not to contact him for a couple of weeks. He will either start calling (wondering why you haven't called HIM!!!) or he won't. If it's the latter, then I'm afraid the relationship is over and you'll need to move on to someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated. We'll all had our hearts broken and we all recover...eventually.

Answer 2

How long do you want to keep making the effort? After a while, you will get tired of always making the first communication. If he does not return your calls or takes your calls, that should tell you something. I would take some time off and see how you both feel. You never know, he might come running back to you :)

Answer 3

Ask him point blank if he thinks it is a good idea to date other people while your are separated by distance. If he says yes, then move date someone closer to you. He could be dating someone else and not letting you know about it. Distance does not necessarily make the heart grow fonder if you are thinking with the wrong head.

Answer 4

DUMP HIM DUMP HIM DUMP HIM PLEASE. HE IS CHEATING ON YOU. U KNO WHY HE CANT CALL ...BECAUSE HE IS BUSY....BUSY CHEATING ON YOU. not trying to be pessimistic, this is just real. if he wasnt putting in the effort when you were close, y do u think he will do it in a long distance relationship.