Social Skills: Secrets?

Question

I'm looking to improve my social skills.

I'm the sort of guy who will head out on the w/end and stand on the sidelines...not meeting any women :(

How do I go about improving my social skills if I currently suck at it??

Rob

Answer 1

Social skills are like sport skills - it's often easy to start, but they take time perfect so you can become a winnner.

My best advice is to go to the experts. These guys are apparently the leaders in the field.

http://www.themodernman.com/index.php?module=pagemaster&PAGE_user_op=view_page&PAGE_id=71

I've been umming and ahhing over purchasing their ebook....looks good, but I haven't bought anything online before...

Rob

Answer 2

well for starters if your over the legal age to drink i would just go out with a couple of buddies and start off that way... you know play some pool or darts and have a good time.. this day in age if the women are interested all you got to do is smile and they will come to you

Answer 3

I'm guessing you not being your self that's why its not working so be your self take it easy don't stress out and live the moment instead of thinking thousand of things at once when your talking to somebody and it might not work with everybody but it will with most...

Answer 4

Don't worry, one will come in time.
just act natural and don't particulalry LOOK for anyone, pretty soon you'll meet someone.
Oh, and go to social places. bars, disco, skate rink.
going alone also helps. girls don't like going up to a group and say to a guy,
"want to get to know each other better?"

Answer 5

Get into the game, my friend. You have to if you want more people in your life. I suggest you join some groups that fit in your mindset(from athletics to chess, volunteering, community groups,etc) Open up, look people in the face when you talk to them,don't worry, be happy!

Answer 6

Start simple. Just pinch a girl's butt here and then pinch another girl's butt there and before you know it everything will be turning up Rob!