What do you think about a guy who's single, has his own apartment with no roommates. He's slighly feminine, seems metro, but hey who knows. It's hard to tell. Everyone think he's GAY. But he denied it. He flirts with any sexy good-looking girls that come around, it's probably an act lol. Well, okay he's my friend so I went to his house, and he showed me tons of condoms that he has, a drawer half full of condoms!!!!!
Mind you, he has no gf and isn't seeing anyone as far as I know. He said he rarely or never brought girls to his place, probably a lie too.
So tell me Yahoo Answerers:
Is He a PLAYER or Is He totally GAY?
He's probably having sex with dudes every night , I mean all these condoms for nothing??? c'mon now.
2006-12-25 13:14:42 · 29 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked him and so did everyone else....he denied it.
2006-12-25 13:20:11 · update #1
yeah - my opinion - he doesn't want u yo know he's gay - or - he wants u to believe he's not, and tries to show u.
not very convincing - i must say
2006-12-25 13:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My friend had a brown bag packed with condoms that were in his drawer. His female friend gave it to him in hopes that he will use them someday. He is a virgin about to graduate from college. He has never had a successful love relationship with a female yet; these females turn out to be mean and use him. He is a nice, good-looking, well-educated, hetersexual guy who gets shy and tough tied when talking with females. He is certainly not a player or gay man. He just had a series of bad girlfriends.
This guy that you are talking about could just be like my friend.
2006-12-25 21:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by alien20 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Did he bring you over to just show you the drawer full of condoms? Lol. If he's gay then he's really going out of his way to make other people think other wise.
2006-12-25 21:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by DLG 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
A player wouldn't want to put off girls with that many condoms, you'd think. Imagine if she saw that drawer by accident.
"You said I was special"
OTOH, people are unique....he may be the one player who takes that risk.
Gay people tend to live on their own more often (they earn slightly more - fact - and aren't as easy to live with!)
Economist detective. You've given me an idea for a job I think Bibi!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-25 21:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by rage997 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know guys who keep condoms" just in case something goes down." I use to have a bucket of condoms that i'd pass along to friends. I don't think him having a drawer full of condoms makes him gay. And if you're his friend why are you judging either way.
2006-12-25 21:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by damalala 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well im straight and i have a good collection, grant it i was in a lil thing w/ this girl where i had plans to use em all but things happend and now im left w/ a bunchof unused rubbers so maybe he just likes knowing he could lock himself in his room for like 2 weeks and have a 2 week orgy. i dont think you can tell. if he has a bumpersticker that has rainbows and says i like balls in my face, then i think you could say hes gay, but i dont think u can make a proper judgement jst from this
2006-12-25 21:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Hock 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is a player because you tell that he flirts with any sexy-good looking girls,he just doesn't tell you his bussinness. And you seem to like him too
2006-12-25 21:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by diana s 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me that he is trying to be safe.
Don't assume someones sexual orientation unless you know for sure, and too many condoms is not a reason to assume he is gay.
Plus if he is your friend, why are you second guessing him?
If he is gay, big deal.
2006-12-25 21:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Gay with a capital G
2006-12-25 21:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by short cherry 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Why don't you ask him what the condoms are about? Oh, wait a minute, maybe it's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS to begin with! It's sad how people judge one another.
2006-12-25 21:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can't tell and you are right there. How could anyone else possibly know that's never even seen him? Maybe he goes both ways!
2006-12-25 21:18:22 · answer #11 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋