there is this guy that i work with, he has a major major crush on me. Everyone can tell, well from what they say he doesnt hide it from them. I had no idea that he had a crush on me until all my co-workers started coming up 2 me. At our Xmas party he was going 2 fight this guy, cuz he was doing some naughty things bhind my back. He buys me lil bags of candys N puts them on my desk. Hes really really nice, ive always thght he was nice even b4 i knew he hada crush on me. Hes a hard worker, super nice guy, like geniunely nice. Has an AWESOME personality! Not joking hes always happy, never lets anything get 2 him, sings all day, just happy. I am a lil freaked out i guess now that i know, hes been calling me 4 the past 4 days, like just 2 c how i am and then like just wants 2 talk. I Dunno waht to do. since ive know ive noticed when he talks 2 me he just looks at me or when we all have a conversation he like doesnt even acknowldge them.
I know looks dont matter but it bothers me. Wat 2 do
2006-12-25 13:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by And What?? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know my father would freak, my sister brought a 41yr old home and shes 25.
Also, he was hinting infront of me on friday that he wanted togo the movies, but i left before he could ask me. Yeah, im a pussy...Also for the record, ive only had one relationship which lasted for 4 yrs, and i have a 4yr old ...So Yeah im scared cuz ive neva dated but what would ya'all do i mean there is a big age gap
2006-12-25 13:11:17 · update #1
i know looks dont matter, and as far as looks mattering, WOMEN get judged on looks every single day regardless of age. Its not his looks that bother me (I love bald heads), tha age gap has a lil play, my father is a bigger issue, im just confused ...
2006-12-25 13:43:31 · update #2
wow an 11 year gap! Just joking. Really, many people look for a companion all their life and come up with nothing. That's not a great big age difference. Don't be fearful of your dad, this guy may be your knight. You should give him a chance. Go out to lunch with him at work and engage in casual conversation, but I wouldn't let it pass without giving it a try. Actually at his age he may be mature enough to handle a serious relationship if it get that far. After going to lunch with him a couple of times and you feel you want to go on a real date, then sit your father down and explain the whole situation. Let your father have some input, he may have disliked your sister's friend because your dad may have seen that the older guy just went for your daughter because she was young. I don't know any father who doesn't want the best for his girl. Introduce the guy over for dinner if your father will let you. Tell your father you want him to meet him and that you value his opinion. Good luck my friend and I hope it turn out well. You sound like a good person and so does the guy.
2006-12-25 13:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do looks matter to you that much, is the question here. So today you are 24 and let's say youth is on your side; however, one day you will be a tad older and may have gained a pound or two, should looks matter then? Also, life can be cruel, imagine getting into a car accident and you are left with facial scars, should looks matter then? You see, you should not judge someone's looks unless you want to be held to that same standard. Also, you can very well find someone who does "Look Perfect" for you and it may turn out very badly. This person could be so cruel to you, and all of the signs could have been there but you never seen it because your concern was looks and how "We will look in public together as a couple" and "How other people will think of us when seen together."
we each have our own standard, you have to use your standard to decide this. If you think he is nice but not nice enough for you to overcome his looks, which are less than what you expect in a mate, then do what you feel is right. But do not go out with him if you really have an issue with this because you will always treat him inferior and that will lead to further problems, or you may never truly be satisfied.
2006-12-25 13:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon at something of you. Do you have a stunning face? a advantageous character? Being bald isn't the worst obtainable element that could take place, i could evaluate relationship a bald guy if I enjoyed him.
2016-10-28 08:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eleven years isn't that big a gap, actually. You just might never find a non balding, younger version with such a great personality who is crazy about you. At least give him a chance. Go on a few dates with him and see how you feel.
2006-12-25 13:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the "nice" stays long after the looks are gone.
"What to do" depends on how YOU feel about HIM. Do you like him as a human being? Are you comfortable with the age difference? It sounds to me, by your description of him, that you seem to like him. I'd give it a chance. If he's starting to bald, no big deal...my son-in-law is starting to lose his hair and he just turned thirty. If it doesn't turn you off, don't let this opportunity to date Mr. Nice Guy himself stop you.
2006-12-25 13:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough to pass what sounds like a great guy, but you don't sound like you're going to give up the bald thing. If you think it's going to be an issue (sure sounds like it) don't even start anything. You said it bothers you, so take it from there.
2006-12-25 13:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alls I know is im 37. If you date him youll probably make him really happy and you should have known that he was not the free candy fairy. : (
He will probably continue to loose hair so thats probably a more important issue than rather or not hes 10 years older.
2006-12-25 13:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by web s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 and my bf is 32. He's also going bald but he's got a really cute face and a nice body. Also he makes me laugh and i love that.
It doesn't bother me, specially 'cause before i was with him i was with this younger, cuter guy but so frickin boring, trust me, personality's what you should look for always...
2006-12-25 13:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...the age thing is beside the point....Co-Worker relationships can get messy, i wouldnt recommend IT AT ALL. regardless of your dating situation you still have to come to work everyday! That can be VERY UNCOMFORTABLE. and this guy sounds like he doesnt mind sharing his biznazz with the office...do u really want that...besides that youre too old to be seeking daddy's approval on dates...
2006-12-25 13:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-25 12:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋