Guys out there... Are men trust worthy?

Question

So many things are said about guys being cheaters and loveless dogs, and then on the other hand you have those who said "hey I'm a nice guy" (this guy is usually unattracive or already has a GF). So What is the truth? Men what's up with you? Are you dogs gods or just human beings? Can you be trusted by women? and if so how much of the time?

Answer 1

Do you really want the answer to this question? Look at the question. You know there's a nice guy out there just for you. You are just picky. It's OK to be picky, but you have to be more patient. Guys who can get alot of girls tend to not want to be faithful. Guys who can't tend to be unattractive, probably a confidence thing.

Anyway, I suggest the following:

1. Don't look to hard, just browse and wait for one to stand out from the rest.

2. Don't jump into bed with him right away. Sex tends to destroy the possibility of love. In fact, sex shoudl only come after commitment.

Answer 2

No, we are human beings. But you can't just ask a question like this. The answer cannot be yes or no. The truth is, some men are trustworthy and a lot are not. And what is this business about nice guys being unattractive? I am a nice guy, and I am just as attractive as any other guy. I'm not a typical nice guy though. I have a lot more courage than most, and my skin is a lot thicker. I can ALWAYS be trusted by women, as long as they don't try to stab me in the back.

Now I have a question for you. Are women trustworthy? Or are they just users and loveless snobs? Every nice woman I have met has been at least one of these:
1) Related to me.
2) Over 30 or 40.
3) In a relationship (usually with a jerk).
4) Unattractive and/or not attracted to me (even though I'm a nice, normal guy).
The rest are sluts, mothers (no offense to mothers, but I don't want to date you and your problems -- shoulda thought about that before having that child), or snobs. What is the truth? What's up with women? Are they even human? Can men trust them?

I hope you see how silly the argument is now. It all depends on the individual. Maybe you shouldn't listen so much to what people complain about. Of course you'll hear more about the problems people have than the success stories, because successes don't make for good gossip. Men have it at least as bad as women do when it comes to finding a good partner. Seriously, we do. But it isn't quite as bad as you think. You just need to be patient. Good luck!

Answer 3

I cant answer for every guy in the world but there are some men out there who are trustworthy. Men shouldnt be discriminated against because women do just as much as men do, we are all human and everyone is bound to make a mistake at some point. Just because women have had bad relationships with some guys doesn't mean all the guys in the world are jerks and there is somebody out there who will treat them right if they'd just give them a chance. I mean if you were a guy and the rumor about all men was that they are "all jerks" how would you feel about it? What if men started to say all women are the same? It isnt true...everyone is different in their own ways and you just have to give them a chance, if by chance they do turn out to be jerks then just move on because they werent worth your time.

Answer 4

The answer to your question has more to do with the relationship between men and weman these day's. The point, is that girls never want the nice guy. If you want an example just look at your friends and there relationships. Girls go for the jerks. Even if a girl thinks a guy looks good, has good morals and is well spoken, he will get passed up 9 times out of 10 if hes a "nice guy". Thay realy do finnish last. My mother tought me to respect weman, treat them as I would like to be treated, and be nice. Ya, right, that's what weman want, a big pussy. No, most girls go for guys that act like ***** to them, you know its true. I used to be the "nice guy". I was allways just a friend. And I dont fit into your "unattractive" catigory, I used to moddle for a liveing. Then I had a bad day and acted like an ***, all day. I got enough positive recognition to be asked out by three fo the girls that turned me down weeks or days befor. So now, im a compleat dick to girls untill I find one with a good heart and a good personality. Then, when I start acting nice because I start liking them, they eather don't like it and break up with me or stay with me, thinking that they "taimed the beast". It works. And yes, some guyes over do it. And I have never condoned cheating, in any relationship. The cheater is jacked up no matter what reasons they think they have. Were not loveless, we need to be loved just as much as weman do. We just dont know how to show it like you do, and if we did, we would look weak, so we dont. And last but not least, I dont mean to be rude to you, but if your passing up the real nice guyes because there not attractive enough for you, you should stop swiming in such shallow wateres or stop complaining about the choices you make.

Answer 5

You say that the nice guys are usually unattractive or already has a GF. This tells me you're shallow. You judge on the outside before looking at the heart. Most of the "fine dudes" know that they're fine and jump at any women who will give them a chance. So, you've judged the wrong kind of guy, and you've got burned. Not all guys are cheaters,check out some of these "unattractive guys", and you may just find yourself being put on a pedestal and romanced......Remember, many women cheat too....I hope I didn't upset you, and I hope you have a nice day.

Answer 6

Oh dear, the sad truth is that most people, guys AND girls, are overwhelmingly untrustworthy.
Most of us are only attracted to people that are bad for us; and the "nice" person always seems already taken by some jerk.

Go figure.

As for your question, there ARE some trustworthy guys (and girls). Only most of them are trustwothy only in certain situations or at certain times; and also depending on which phase the relationship is in.
A man that is in love will not stray. He won't want to.
A man that is in a committed relationship; but not in love, will stray if he thinks that he can get away with it.
(This goes for women too).

My Mother's advice to this bleak situation was this: "If you take care of home, you won't have to worry".
And if you still have to worry, then you need to move on to the next.

Good luck!

Answer 7

I have never cheated or acted like a loveless dog, but I am a nerd that most women don't find attractive. Most of the time girls in high school go for the bad boys cause they are sexy, and deliberately refuse to date the nerdy guys who would treat them with respect and honesty for all their lives. If you believe men have problems, maybe it is the kind of men you are attracted to?

Answer 8

the thing to do is find out background information. the guys that look the coolest or at the most smooth and stylish are that way because they have gone through so many people. choose a normal guy. and ide suggest being a friend with them for awhile first. if they cant take the time to be friends and want to rush things they jsut want in then to get back out and they dotn want it to last. background information about how long who and how they broke up with past girlfriend(s) can be a big indicator of who they are.

Answer 9

Well let's put it this way can anybody be trusted, it's not just men out there that cheat it goes both ways.. Yes there are men out there that are trustworthy as their are woman... You cant have everything in life would you rather keep dating someone who's good looking but ends up breaking your heart or would you rather take a chance with somebody less attractive who will treat you like gold.. Its really all about patience you will find true love out there dont rush it.

Answer 10

Attractive people have the advantage of fulfilling their physical desires, so usually an attractive person's desires come first. This can lead to a person being unfaithful to a another who feels that the interaction between the two is somewhat significant.

On the other hand, a person that is not so attractive may concentrate more on catering to another person or being submissive to one's desires. If one does not have physical prowess then one may focus on his or her mental capabilities, i.e. conversation, being polite and respectful.

So, trusting a man or woman may only go as far as the person's options.