u see,he'll be nice and loving to me only when he needs sex.after that,i seem careless again.its been repeatedly done.i feel like im bein used juz to let out his satisfaction.wat the hell.im really gettin pissed off.i've ever tell him off but he juz say that it's only my feelings.maybe girls might understand the meening of bein used right?i understand that he's my husband and i should be greatful that he wants to have sex with me instead of others.bt what matters is his attitude and the way he treat me!totally sucks!wat shud i do???
2006-12-25 13:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Grateful? You should not be grateful to him for having sex with you....what is it these days. Doesn't anyone "make love" anymore. I don't know if you have children or not (if you do, have them stay overnight with a relative or your good friend once in awhile), but you need to encourage your husband to "date" and "romance" you and "make love" to you. Try looking and acting like a lady, candle light dinner, soft music, etc. and tell him what you want...if he can't romance you and is abusive, then I would get counseling (with or without him) and make a decision whether he is worth staying with or not. If it were me, the answer would be "not".
2006-12-25 13:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 08:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY what you mean. And if my husband doesn't change his attitude, I'm leaving him. We've been through marriage counseling and it isn't working. Good luck to you!!!
2006-12-25 14:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike is 100% right. You deserve better.
2006-12-25 13:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses to change his attitude towards you, you should leave him. NO MAN, I repeat, NO MAN has any right, whatsoever, to treat his wife like crap.
2006-12-25 13:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋