I really like a classmate, but should I tell him?

Question

I know he likes me as friend. He always talk to me. He always plays with me and what I'm wearing (not in THAT way) and laughs at a lot of my horrible jokes. He tends to light up when I greet him. I've only know him since september, is that a contributing factor? Maybe he just wants to be friends.

Answer 1

This is going to be hard advice to take, but try, okay?

Just tell him. And don't just say, "hay, I like you." Tell him you like him, ask him if he's free to grab dinner or a movie or a Starbucks or an ice cream (brr!) later on in the week

I once had a guy tell me that "there's nothing more attractive than being found attractive," which may take a moment or two to dissect, but it makes sense when you think about it. If you're sort of friends with a guy and he's kinda cute and then he asks you out, if you like him AT ALL are you really going to cruelly turn him down?

The worst that can happen is that he says "you know, I really dont think about you that way," and then you just accept it and back off.

It's so much better than suffering in silence though. I've found that just being willing to express yourself makes for much less pain, even if you end up getting rejected a couple of times.