I have several experience where I had a good date with a girl. She said she had a good time, gave me good vibe during the date, and at the end of the date, she said she would love to go out with me again. Several day passed, I called her, her attitude changed as if she wanted to keep distance with me. She's not returning my calls and next thing I know, she dissapears. What do you think has happened? I am pretty good at telling if someone's not interested in me, and this was not the case.
2006-12-25 12:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. People always act differently on first dates because they're nervous and they want to make a good impression.
2. Don't wait several dates to call her, she'll think you lost interest.
3. If she flakes, she may have found someone else or she may have changed her mind about you, or she might have just been acting nice and wasn't really interested while she was on the date with you.
2006-12-25 12:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They either thought they liked you and didnt when they actually went out with you, or just wanted a free dinner or something out of it. I talked to my hubby online and on the phone for a few weeks before we met, and 4 months later we were engaged, and then a year and 1/2 later we got married (back in May). So my advice would be, dont just go out on a date with them, but talk to them long enough to get to know them a little, that way you can tell if they are acting like their true self or not on the date. Good luck!
2006-12-25 20:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Candifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that women are into having contempt for men, and once they know that you're easy or wrapped around their finger, they would just rather toss you aside.
Obviously this isn't true in all cases, so I really don't know what the determining criteria are.
2006-12-25 20:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc on the first date we're nervous..and most grls just want to impress u on the forst date..after that they get relaxed and they become more of themselves around u..which is usually not a good thing...its just what everyone does-try to make a good impression
2006-12-25 20:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha cause they dont like you bud you got no game!!! haha jp. you prob thought you were doing good, but you may have came off too strong. and like they were being polite but if you come off to strong or do something they dont like you're auto matically a one and doner, it happens to the best of us, some more than others. u could be messin w/ easy girls too. But i think you prob overly cocky and think your hott **** and come off like an ***, so they back off. so maybe your not so good at seeing if their interested in you. sorry to come off harsh, but u might just not be a mack
2006-12-25 20:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They lied to you. ALMOST all women say they'll go out again. They hate to let people down. But when it comes to actually doing so....
NOT HAPPENIN CAPTAIN
hahahhaha
cereal
oh yeah. You must not be as good as reading people as you think. That's probably one of your biggest problems!
2006-12-25 20:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they act different after the 1st date(and if it was good) we'll just b ourselves.Don't b surprised.
2006-12-25 20:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Colts Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she met somebody else after that one time she went out with you...
2006-12-25 20:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becasue on teh first they try to impress you than they show their real self
2006-12-25 20:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first immpresion....she thinks u aint wat she thought u was
2006-12-25 20:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by {BUBBLICIOUSZ}♥MUAH! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋