OK. I quit all communications with my X girlfriend about a month ago. She kept saying she did not understand why I stopped talking to her. Basically I am moving on past our relationship. She has a boyfriend, who she chose over me, when I wanted to work things out. So today she sends me a text wishing me a happy X-mas, and I just said, merry christmas to you too. last friday she called me like 3 times at 2:00 in the morning. Why is she doing this? She knows I am moving on and know she is trying to hold on, but if she is so happy, why wont she just leave me be?
2006-12-25 12:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you answer? Why don't you block the number?
Why don't you stop talking to her? Who is the joke? You think that you aren't provoking this?
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2006-12-25 12:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask the same question about my ex who i have been split up with for months now. I think he does it just to try to get to me, that is why I quit talking to him, I wont answer the phone for his calls and I wont reply to his text messages, when he calls and leaves a message I delete it before I answer it. Try that, he now rarely calls, it was 20-30 times a day now its about once a week
2006-12-25 12:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear she wants to keep you around for whatever reason (ie. in case things with her current guy go sour or she cares for you and likes talking to you). if it is really bothersome, you will gain a lot by picking up the phone once and just saying "I can't talk to you right now. Please don't call me anymore". It might not be easy, but it sounds like it will be better than the current torture she is bringing.
2006-12-25 12:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude some people are so selfish that the want to have everything. You need to be firm if need rude and get the message across to her ask her to leave you alone period. Good luck
2006-12-25 12:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why? Just ignore her and move on. Don't look back, and don't waste time trying to analyze everything. I take it things were not going well, and they probably wouldn't get better if you get back together. Good luck!
2006-12-25 12:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being a *****. She's probably regretting the decision she made. Tough cookies and cheese for her. If you mean it.. tell her and be firm. Don't be afraid to hurt her feelings a little. She'll stop.
2006-12-25 12:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to be friends. You guys are over. She made her choice and so now she doesn't get to enjoy your personality anymore.
2006-12-25 12:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 month is few time.......If you want her back dont answer for a while......if you really dont want her anymore answer her and write her manypolite mails she will be boring of you soon! thats women works....hahah!!!
2006-12-25 12:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by mariposa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋