2006-12-25 11:35:18 · 16 answers · asked by ahmedco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe.
You have to give it time, and time will tell.
PATIENCE!
2006-12-25 11:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Susanne R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't get anyone to love you back, they have to come around to that themselves. I'm in a very similar situation, or I was.
She may be feeling like she doesn't want to get hurt again, which puts you in a bad position, seen as though you ignored her.
But maybe you did have a good reason for ignoring her.
Best advice is tell her why you ignored her and see what goes on from there. You could tell her how you feel, but make sure if you do, it's face-to-face.
If the boot was on the other foot, then you would've been hurt by her ignoring you.
2006-12-25 20:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off a question - how do you know she loved you if you ignored her? Love is often misunderstood for initial sexual chemistry - the meeting of eyes across a crowded room etc..
From experience if you ignore potential amorous attempts from the opposite sex then they will usually be ignored in like manner if you decide to reverse the tables. This isnt because she is being spiteful but because she feels untrusting of you. If the chemistry is still alive then go for it but be ready with a complimentary excuse for you previously ignoring her..
2006-12-25 20:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by steven tt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You leave out some important details; did she truly love you? what were your reasons for ignoring her? what are your reasons for wanting her to love you again? loving someone who ignored her must have hurt, if you love her, surely you want her to be happy? has she found someone else? has she moved on? If so, let her go. Do the right thing, if you truly love her, and you think she still loves you then you have a chance at something incredible, take it, risk all, confess all, talk with her, tell her you love her, tell her why you ignored her, tell her what's changed, tell her everything. Make her happy, please.
2006-12-25 19:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. There was this guy that was just crazy about me for about a year... but I was busy dating around and didnt want to get serious with him bc he was so "nice". We were luke-warm friends for all that time but I think that still hurt him because of his feelings for me. Basically I blew him off for all that time... until i was ready, then started dating him last year. I'm completely in love with him now, we actually just got engaged and i couldnt be happier!
I guess what im trying to say is if her feelings were that strong for you, id say theres a 99% chance theyre still there. She might be hesitant to start dating you because she's scared you will hurt her, so tell her how you feel but start slow. If you give eachother space and start building a relationship slowly, Im sure it will work out. Good luck!!
2006-12-25 19:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! that's a shame, she may have been badly hurt by your actions. However, you may get a reprieve and have a second chance. But usually people are difficult to predict and they are not pieces of property to be simply maintained. They have real feelings and emotions and thus respond to genuine care and attention. You will have to devote 'time', for which there is no substitute, time with no expectations. All the best! and if all else fails, you will move on as we all have to from time to time.
2006-12-25 19:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by breezinabout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah its possible, just depends on how you handle the situation and how you approach her. I ignored my husband for the longest so he says, never really looked at him in that way and then once i looked back on it i mean i guess i did in a way ignore him. but we were friends for a while and then we kind of let one thing lead to another and 8 months later we are happily married! 6 month anniversary this month. good luck
2006-12-25 19:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks you deserve it. I don't take well to being snubbed and am unlikely to give a second look if that person becomes interested unless I truly loved them before and am certain they would be sincere in their intentions. I wish other girls would be so picky in their taste in guys
Be sincere, if you are doing this to stroke your ego, forget it.
Be patient, she may not jump at your whim.
Don't be an @sshole and play her. If it doesn't work this time, leave her alone.
2006-12-25 19:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,but what you can do is ask her out to a picnic or something get to know each other more make her laugh tell her how you enjoy being with her and she might fell in love with you again if that don't work tell her how YOU really fell about her.
2006-12-25 19:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by malinda s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe but u better try giving her attention this time. good luck, marry christmas and have a happy holidays
2006-12-25 19:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why if you loved her did you ignore her? personally If I were her i would ignore you.
2006-12-25 19:38:56 · answer #11 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋