i really like him but i dont know if i LOVE him yet!! HELP ME!!
2006-12-25 11:32:15 · 19 answers · asked by summer t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your guy that you like him but that you aren't ready to tell him that you love him. Explain that it is nothing that he is doing wrong on his part, it's just that you are not sure for yourself yet since love is such a strong emotion. Tell him that when you are ready to love and it is him, you want everything to be just right.
2006-12-25 11:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to bring you down, but a lot of people just SAY i love you before theyve really thought about what it means. So, when he says it just tell him that youre not one of those people, and you like him a lot and could end up loving him.. but youre just not sure yet. He might be uncomfortable just hearing silence every time he says he loves you so this will probably calm him down on it. Tell him when its that time youll be sure to let him know! :)
2006-12-25 11:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how long have you been dating If its only a few mouths then maybe you need to decide if you wont to continue. Love takes time
2006-12-25 11:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a complicated thing, and saying those words too early can often damage a relationship.
just tell him u really care for him, but that u dont wana jinx things by saying those words too soon. im sure hell understand ull say them when ur ready
2006-12-25 11:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you love him? The whle heart flippy thing? Sweaty Palms, maybe? You need to think about him. Have you ever seen that Gilmore Girls where this happens to Rory? Watch that.
2006-12-25 11:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Emma S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything, too many people jump the gun and say I love you before they truly do, most men will say it to a woman once they start having sex because men think it is what a woman wants to hear when she has started putting out
2006-12-25 11:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him you love until your really for sure that you do. love is a very powerful word along will feeling, so a person shouldn't just use the the term to get brownie points!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-25 11:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont love him tell him tht you are ready to say that yet but tell him you relly like him and you dont want this to put a dent in you relationship.
2006-12-25 11:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by AvOnDaLeGuRl4LiFe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he says he loves you just smileand act like ur blushing. You should think about it becuase it can be a start of a true relationship.
2006-12-25 11:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you help your self
nobody else is in your shoes
he says he loves you .so you deal with it
just follow your gut instinct,you feelings your heart ,do what makes you feel best
above all be honest
2006-12-25 11:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋