Do u think my bf is cheatin on me?

Question

okay he went to a bar and I called him to see what he was up too and there was a girl in the back ground makin sex noises. he said "i am busy" and then hung up I called back a hour later and Said what the F*** R u cheatin on me. He said he didnt know what i was talkin bout his phone been in the car all night. then he said it must of been one of his friends. then he laughed and said f***ing Matt (his Friend) he said sorry then he walkd up to matt and said "u got me in trouble with my girl" and in the back i heard matt say sorry IDK if matt covered for him or if hes tellin me
the truth!

Answer 1

He's cheating. Why would he go to a bar without you? Ask yourself why people go to bars. They go to bars to drink and pick up on others. If he wanted just a drink, he could have gone to the market and picked up a 40. Wake up. He is cheating on you.

Answer 2

From what you said, you caught him in a lie. First he says his phone was in the car the whole time but then says it was his friend who was on phone to you? You called his phone right? Either the friend picked up your guys phone and was messing around or your guy is lying. Sounds to me like he's lying. His little laugh to you was his way of covering his a s s w/this new idea he had to use his friend to get out of it. Which do you want to believe is what you have to ask yourself. If you think he's cheating, you'll need to catch him in it. But never accuse him of cheating unless you have solid proof to back it up with. If you're sure you had the right number and it was him and not his friend, that girl could have been some drunk who was coming on to him or someone else entirely but your'll never know. If he's not cheating on you and you still can't trust him, this relationship isn't going to work. Everytime you're not w/him, you're going to make yourself nuts wondering what he's up to, who he's with, what he's doing and you'll end up pushing him away w/your accusations. It's not the kind of relationship you need to be in. Break it off w/him and find someone who will respect you and not lie to you.

Answer 3

Well, based on matts personailty i think you should make a bold guess. If matt is a jokester and has a highpitched voice then you can assume that it was a joke. But, if he is serious and dull and would not make those sounds, then that mothafuckas cheating on you. And why would he say IM BUSY. Take a risk

Answer 4

thats freaking sketchy as hell, hun. I would be SO suspicious. But i guess there's ntohing you can really do to prove it right now. Just keep a tight eye on him. Tell him that he needs to keep his phone on him if he wants you to trust him. Just explain toh im how it sounded to you and you need to be able to reach him without sketchy things going on in the background. If you relaly love him i'd let it go. but lotherwise, (or if he hasa history) you needa confront him and maybe even dump him. that sounds SOOO effing sketchy

Answer 5

Yes, I know he is. Go with your gut instinct. Besides Matt has always stuck up for him hasn't he? Her name is Bethany. Remember when he told you about his friend Brian? Well, Brian is Bethany. And by the way, he wasn't at the movies that one Friday like he said he was. He was with Bethany.

Answer 6

for 1 if your questioning things like this then you don't trust your man and you shouldn't be with him cause relationships are built on trust. 2: you never know with guys just talk to him and figure out what he says

Answer 7

I agree with aweety69 100 %

Answer 8

It is obvious that you dont trust your boyfriend. Break up with him. Take the time to grow up yourself. And try again with someone else.

Answer 9

You answered your own question. If you're that suspicious of him, then it's over. There's no trust for either of you. Time to walk away.

Answer 10

He's cheating, his friend is going to cover for him b/c thats just what friends do.