im only 9 and my brothers are 15 and 17 and i have no sisters but i want to spend time with blake hes 15 but he always is with his friends and girls and his friends that are girls liike me but he never wants to hang out with me what should i do?
2006-12-25 11:13:08 · 21 answers · asked by kenzie080 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-12-25 11:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, don't fret too much about it... It's part and parcel of being a teenager, I expect you'll be doing the same when you're that age. It's nothing personal and I'm sure he still loves you loads. He's probably taking you granted for now, but he'll see the error of his ways and treat you like the special person you are :D But for now, try to be patient with him. If it REALLY bothers you, try telling him this and asking him to perhaps set aside for you?
Just remember there's nothing more special than family bonds. And your brother loves you really, just explain that you miss him :) Merry Christmas.
2006-12-25 19:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, but there's not a whole lot you can do. You must realize that your brothers are both teenagers. They are getting interesting in girls and developing social lives in school and out of school. They're growing up, basically. It may be upsetting to not be able to spend time with them, but one day you'll understand why.
2006-12-25 19:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you must understand that boys of older age have different interests. Your brothers are into hanging out with cute girls that love them back. I say, you should take the more intellectual approach and start reading books to your brother. Or, you can threaten him using blackmail techniques
2006-12-25 19:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by tumor101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how that feels. Seems like your brother feels like his "too grown up " to be hanging around with a 9 year old brother.It happens . Don't mop around . This might be the time for you to discover new friends and explore new places. For your brother, tell him about this . Maybe he will come around
2006-12-25 19:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea buddy, its going to be this way probably at least until you are 21 and he is 26, before you guys can truly have a meaningful brother to brother relationship... For reasons you wont understand for a while..
2006-12-25 19:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always ask him if he could spend time with you...One tihng you could do is to choose an activity that he is really good at--for example--like fixing cars--or fishing--you could ask him to teach you--or invite him to go with you--you could say that you told some people that he was great at it--and see if he wants to help you--
As he is a teenager--he is probably busy with school and his frineds etc...but if he wants to he can make time for you too--think about fun things that you like to do together--and try t create opportunities for them to happen...
Good Luck...he should be glad to have a brother like you:)
2006-12-25 19:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the age. Once you all get alittle bit older and everything you all will start hanging out again. I'm 26 and my brother is 23 now and he is one of my bbest friends.
2006-12-25 20:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I use to be in the same situtation when i was little but it was the opposit my big sister was always with guys and i wanted to hang with her. but she didnt so finally she was with her friends and I said Thats mess up u wanna hang out your friends but u dont wanna hang out with your flesh and blood sister she smiled and told me to come hang out w/ her and her friends just tell ur brother how u feel I am sure he'll understand Good Luck!
2006-12-25 19:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad, man.
Someday he'll look back and wish he hung out with you more, but teenagers are too self-absorbed to think about family.
Maybe you can try to find something in common? Like playing Mario Kart. Everyone likes Mario Kart.
2006-12-25 19:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hogwash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi little person im a 15 yr old guy too and im actually pretty bored rite now thats why im on yahoo answerrs ...well i dont know wht to say hes ur older brother... find little friends ur age soo u can hang out and play and stuff....yup
2006-12-25 19:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋