for sex. really.
cause im lonely and desperatee and im a loser virgin at 28.
so i think i may not have a choice u know,. what else can i do right?
2006-12-25 11:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter how desparate you are. Do not use an escort service. Not only will they give you some horrible disease, but they could steal your cc number, wallet, identity and cause more problems than you need in your life. My guess is that you are unrealistic about your expectations for a mate/lover. Deal with your issues of self-doubt, change your life, change your attitude, and start thinking more confidently. There is someone for everyone -- you just have to make sure you aren't expecting some hot model or actor type to fall in love with you...you can find someone who is kind, sweet, gentle, honest, and who loves you for who you are.
2006-12-25 11:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never use an escort. I'm 19 and a virgin and planning on staying that way until I marry. You're not a loser just because you're still a virgin at 28. I know a lot of women who really like virgin men because it shows that they have self respect and high morals. Just wait for the right girl and you will be glad you did. Great things come to those who wait.
2006-12-25 11:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First just because you're a 28 virgin does not make you a loser. And hiring an escort, basically legal prostitutes is beyond desperate, it's dumb. You don't know what kinds of diseases and STDs this girl has. Before you can get a real girlfriend, you need to work on your self esteem. If you don't love yourself, who else will?
2006-12-25 11:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by careb0o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats pathetic. it'd be worse to hire a PROSTITUTE (which is what you are describing) than to bbe a virgin. honestly. Im sorry but its really sad that you're getting the message that you dont have a choice, like you can't have your virginity or else something terrible will happen. Just wait for the right girl. YOu'll be so much happier you did. And if you're getting sh*t from ppl: first of all, its nobody's business if you're a virgin or not, and secondly, then these people are not high quality people an dyou need new friends too.
just wait, dude. you'll be much more respected for that than if you hire a random slut just to deflower yourself
2006-12-25 11:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer very nearly as many females because of the fact the media would have you ever believed are trafficked into prostitution. it particularly is an significant factor to be conscious because of the fact money get diverted to assist different agendas. What constantly amazes me is human beings can settle for females are compelled into having intercourse or that they are going to do it for drug funds, however the assumption she would do it because of the fact's a conceivable source of earnings that she would enjoy that's a very alien theory (or a minimum of enjoy it extra beneficial than shuffling papers all day for lots much less). And the reason we don't decide directly to think of it is with the help of the fact makes her a real person with a real identity with real likes and dislikes; which isn't, so a procedures as i'm conscious, something maximum human beings decide directly to think of approximately whilst they visit prostitutes. The stigma continues to be precisely the same, different than the better type you're, the extra constructive you may conceal it. in actuality, I reckon the crack whore has a extra constructive risk of marriage than your intense type escort.
2016-12-15 07:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..do NOT use an escort...u r a virgin..dont u want the first time to be special?? i dont think losing it to a hooker (or an escort if u wanna call it tht way) is so special
and stop being so depressed..its not all about sex u kno??
2006-12-25 11:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I was in a fraternity in college. And I grew into a man with some of the wildest guys you have met. Just out to have a good time. If you dont have other means, I.e friends to go out with and meet women, Hell at 28 even drunk ones .... I would probably do it.. I mean hey, its just like the strip club except mostl ikely you get to sleep with her.... ;-)
2006-12-25 11:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, they are probably better than regular girls at sex anyway. Make sure to tell them you are a virgin so that they will take good care of you. And wear a condom. Good luck.
2006-12-25 11:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never used an Escort but I see nothing wrong with it. Consider it like ordering pizza delivery. I mean celebrities do it like Charlie Sheen. So I see nothing wrong with it.
2006-12-25 11:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! Not sure that is how you would want your first exsperience!! Its paid for.... its all mirrors and lasers!! You will be paying for the look not the feelings you desire deep inside!! Try to find other revenues!! And get rid of the insecurities... you may be able to get anyone you want... if you believe it!! There is someone for everyone.p
2006-12-25 11:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋